Anon or delete please.
I would prefer friends on here to be unaware of this..
It's a long 'un but any help would seriously mean so so so much to me!
Basically I go to a uni. in my home town because my parents didn't want me moving too far away. I moved out of home into uni. accommodation despite this. It was all well and good but I started to develop severe self-esteem problems after a few weeks and my insecurity with myself basically shot up. I started to hate living in halls and would dread having to go there after my lectures.
I asked the uni. if I could move back home and was allowed to do so for the second semester.
Now that I've moved back, it's only gotten worse. My parents have always been over-protective but I thought that maybe they'll lay off me if I moved out for half a year. ..but no, they're still as bad as they were. They don't let me go out till too late (i.e. uni for lectures, then back home.) and they always want to know who I'm going out with (names AND numbers of them all). I'm not allowed to see or talk to my boyfriend who I've been going out with for over a year. I'm not allowed to stay at my friend's halls overnight. I'm not allowed to go out to clubs. They constantly pester me about doing my uni. work. They don't let me join a lot of the societies I'm interested in (i.e. my mum didn't let me apply to volunteer for Nightline)
Someone I know offered me their halls for the rest of the year because they saw how miserable I was getting
I was honestly over-the-moon and couldn't wait to move back out.
..but my mum said that I had my chance to live in halls and I blew it. She said that now that I've moved home, I've got to stay here.
I'm not allowed to move into a house with my coursemates for my second or third year.
..it's honestly hell. I spend my time sitting in my bedroom (which she comes into regularly to complain that it's messy) on my laptop refreshing facebook every 2 mintues. I have nothing else to do
my freshers year is awful. ..and it's only going to get worse when my boyfriend moves away to uni next year and my friends move into their house...while I'm still in my bedroom I've been in since I was 14 being pestered at by my mum.