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Hi, just recently I have noticed I am able to do things I would not previously had done. Like taking up more responsibility, talking more freely to people I don't even know and it's making me feel great!

I have always, always been extremely shy around people I don't know, but now I feel people want to talk to me more as I'm more open than I used to be.


Whiechever way though I feel much better about myself in recent times and my worries about not having a gf etc are slowly going away as I'm enjoying my life more and not worrying about things like this as much, of course I am still mindful of it though.


The question is though, particularly with women, is that would this make me more attractive to them as a result?
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Confidence helps because a confident guy comes across better than someone who is shy but it isn't the only attractive trait that women look for.
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Confidence is attractive, yes. So long as cocky isn't confused with confidence.
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Confident, charming, funny = :sexface:

Egotistical douchebag = :puke:

Edit - Like the above poster said, let's not get the 2 confused.
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its a step in the right direction. However as mentioned above, its not the only trait that women look for.
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Yes, as long as you don't confuse confidence with arrogance.
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confidence is always good, and the better looking you are then the more you can push up into cocky/arrogant territory.

You can't go full on narcissistic ******* however.
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Yes yes yes. It's very important I've found out. Being good looking without confidence doesn't work in my experiences.
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Of course it does, just checkout the stiffmeister aka stiffler
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Confidence is good, just don't overdo it. (:
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yeah, I'll try not to be cocky. But my mate seems to like this "attitude" I have, which is good because Ialso fancy her
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Other way around. Attractive people are confident. Which is why so many people take confidence to be attractive. It ain't. It's attractive when it's attached to an attractive person. The most common example:



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