I used to be best friends with a group of guys, like really really close. This year I'm not friends with any of them. They all hate me and think I'm a ***** apparently.
I'm not a bad person at all. It's just that as we've grown up, they've began to treat us girls like ****. For example, one boy - he was like my best friend, and then he asked me out, and even before I'd replied he asked out our other friend, and has literally flitted back and forth for the past 2 years. I know boys have their 'banter' but sometimes they take it too far, and whereas everybody else just forgets about it, I'm the one person who doesn't let them get away with things. I've been in charge of a lot of things at school like plays etc, and a lot of them have tried to use me to influence decisions, i.e. get parts/director roles without even auditioning? My other friends argue I should let them because they're my friends, but it's not fair, and for that reason I just can't bring myself to do it. I can be a right ***** though, and I can't really control the things I say about them (i.e. the *****ing) which I understand can be frustrating. but it's a result of my own frustration with them!
It's funny coz I have so many girlfriends, and I'm really good friends with literally every single girl in my year. I keep acting like I don't care, but sometimes it hurts so much - being hated by them for who I am. Should I change? Is it too late to put things right?
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