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    So yeah, my GF is going out soon to clubs and all that (i can't as i'm underage at the moment).

    She has told me she is going one place, but i was on her computer the once and her fb was signed in and her friend started talking about going somewhere else?

    So,

    What do i do?

    Confront her?
    or just ignore it and trust her?
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    why does it matter where she's going
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    (Original post by hanaalou)
    why does it matter where she's going
    It sort of matters if she feels she had to lie about it. Duh.
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    have a little trust in her, people will often change their plans on where they're going for nights out.
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    (Original post by Yawn11)
    It sort of matters if she feels she had to lie about it. Duh.
    It was her friend was who talking about going elsewhere, not the gf.

    OP, chill out, you're being ridiculous.
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    Relationships are built on trust. Maybe she doesn't want to go to this other place which her friend is talking about, trust her and whatever happens will happen.

    You will get nowhere by bringing up and pointing out things that show your lack of trust in her. If you want reassurance, you could always casually slip it in to conversation talking about what clubs you want to go to, etc. Whatever you do don't point the finger at the lack of trust, it ruins relationships.
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    I say don't get paranoid just yet. Don't even confront it because that just shows that she's more reason not to trust you first.

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    (Original post by Yawn11)
    It sort of matters if she feels she had to lie about it. Duh.
    it was the girlfriends friend talking about it. and op you should be more trusting.
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    (Original post by jeffercake)
    It was her friend was who talking about going elsewhere, not the gf.

    OP, chill out, you're being ridiculous.
    (Original post by hanaalou)
    it was the girlfriends friend talking about it. and op you should be more trusting.
    No doubt if it was the other way round with a guy lying about it, you'd all be saying "casually ask him about it" and other bill crap.
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    (Original post by Yawn11)
    No doubt if it was the other way round with a guy lying about it, you'd all be saying "casually ask him about it" and other bill crap.
    But she has not lied about it, her friend has merely made a suggestion about going to a different place. Not like it matters where she goes anyway, similar events will occur - drinks, dance, good night...
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    (Original post by Yawn11)
    No doubt if it was the other way round with a guy lying about it, you'd all be saying "casually ask him about it" and other bill crap.
    no I wouldn't. I trust my other half and he's old enough to go where he wants. I'm his girlfriend not his mother!!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So yeah, my GF is going out soon to clubs and all that (i can't as i'm underage at the moment).

    She has told me she is going one place, but i was on her computer the once and her fb was signed in and her friend started talking about going somewhere else?

    So,

    What do i do?

    Confront her?
    or just ignore it and trust her?
    you wouldnt be checking up on her would you? if you are fond of her i'd stop your f*ckery or you're going to loose her
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    People do change their plans you know.
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    People do change their plans you know.
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    I'd ignore it, unless there are other signs she's dishonest, in which case, get rid
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    LOL I really doubt this means anything, whenever me and my mates go out our plans constantly change! We could plan on going one place and have another backup if someone doesn't get in. Or even if it's a party we'll talk about going to another club in case the party's boring. I wouldn't worry.
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    Headlock manoeuvre counsellor. All shall be revealed.
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    People change plans a lot, doesn't mean anything..
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    It always suprises me how much people care about where there partners are. A friend of mine works in a bar and told his girlfriend he was working, which he was. He nipped out to kfc which is the next door along to get some food for ten mins. He was spotted by his gfs friend and she ended the relationship over it.
 
 
 
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