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gf lying?

So yeah, my GF is going out soon to clubs and all that (i can't as i'm underage at the moment).

She has told me she is going one place, but i was on her computer the once and her fb was signed in and her friend started talking about going somewhere else?

So,

What do i do?

Confront her?
or just ignore it and trust her?

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Reply 1

hanaalou

why does it matter where she's going

Reply 2

Yawn11

Original post by hanaalou

why does it matter where she's going

It sort of matters if she feels she had to lie about it. Duh.

Reply 3

bananabrain

have a little trust in her, people will often change their plans on where they're going for nights out.

Reply 4

jeffercake

Original post by Yawn11

It sort of matters if she feels she had to lie about it. Duh.

It was her friend was who talking about going elsewhere, not the gf.

OP, chill out, you're being ridiculous.

Reply 5

Topcorn

Relationships are built on trust. Maybe she doesn't want to go to this other place which her friend is talking about, trust her and whatever happens will happen.

You will get nowhere by bringing up and pointing out things that show your lack of trust in her. If you want reassurance, you could always casually slip it in to conversation talking about what clubs you want to go to, etc. Whatever you do don't point the finger at the lack of trust, it ruins relationships.

Reply 6

Anonymous Boy

I say don't get paranoid just yet. Don't even confront it because that just shows that she's more reason not to trust you first.

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Reply 7

hanaalou

Original post by Yawn11

It sort of matters if she feels she had to lie about it. Duh.

it was the girlfriends friend talking about it. and op you should be more trusting.

Original post by jeffercake

It was her friend was who talking about going elsewhere, not the gf.

OP, chill out, you're being ridiculous.

Original post by hanaalou

it was the girlfriends friend talking about it. and op you should be more trusting.

No doubt if it was the other way round with a guy lying about it, you'd all be saying "casually ask him about it" and other bill crap.

Reply 10

DeepStar

Original post by Yawn11

No doubt if it was the other way round with a guy lying about it, you'd all be saying "casually ask him about it" and other bill crap.

But she has not lied about it, her friend has merely made a suggestion about going to a different place. Not like it matters where she goes anyway, similar events will occur - drinks, dance, good night...

Reply 11

hanaalou

Original post by Yawn11

No doubt if it was the other way round with a guy lying about it, you'd all be saying "casually ask him about it" and other bill crap.

no I wouldn't. I trust my other half and he's old enough to go where he wants. I'm his girlfriend not his mother!!

Reply 12

emeritus2011

Original post by Anonymous

you wouldnt be checking up on her would you? if you are fond of her i'd stop your f*ckery or you're going to loose her :smile:

Reply 13

tinywings

People do change their plans you know.

Reply 14

aarora

People do change their plans you know.

Reply 15

Evangelica

LOL I really doubt this means anything, whenever me and my mates go out our plans constantly change! We could plan on going one place and have another backup if someone doesn't get in. Or even if it's a party we'll talk about going to another club in case the party's boring. I wouldn't worry.

Reply 16

kunjar

Headlock manoeuvre counsellor. All shall be revealed.

Reply 17

Stargazer23

People change plans a lot, doesn't mean anything..

Reply 18

ddrrzzeerr

It always suprises me how much people care about where there partners are. A friend of mine works in a bar and told his girlfriend he was working, which he was. He nipped out to kfc which is the next door along to get some food for ten mins. He was spotted by his gfs friend and she ended the relationship over it.

Reply 19

jeffercake

Original post by Yawn11

No doubt if it was the other way round with a guy lying about it, you'd all be saying "casually ask him about it" and other bill crap.

Tbh, I wouldn't be saying anything because I don't really care. I just wanted to correct you.

Male or female, if they're meant to be in a relationship surely they can just ask where they're going without immediately jumping to the conclusion that the other person is lying.

I don't know what 'bill crap' is either.