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Hypocritical boyfriend and masturbation watch

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    Me and my boyfriend, for some reason were talking about porn and masturbating. He said that while he watches it, he imagines having sex with that girl in that way while he.....pleasures himself. I don't get anything from porn, so I normally think about guys I know and think are rather hot.....I told him this and he got insecure and upset. Why is it fair for him to do it, but not me? Why would the fact I know them make any difference???
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    Well isn't it obvious?

    He's never going to be able to screw a pornstar, but you could quite easily screw those guys you know.
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    Well you both sound nuts for two different reasons. You want to **** guys you know, your bf wants to **** women that he sees on his screen.
    Found a photo of your relationship:
    http://www.theferalscribe.com/wp-con.../crashr1gl.jpg
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    (Original post by sil3nt_cha0s)
    He's never going to be able to screw a pornstar, but you could quite easily screw those guys you know.
    Just to elaborate on this, guys you know (and guys he probably knows) are much more closer to home.
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    Girls from porn are completely detached from real life, whereas guys you know obviously are not.
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    Your relationship can be summed up in one word - lulzworthy
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    It's like that advert where the girls are all naming hot celebs they would like to go out with, and when the girl's partner is asked the same question he says a work colleague everyone knows.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OESLEOo3rqw

    It makes your boyfriend insecure because you could very easily go out and have sex with one of the people you know, but celebrities/porn stars etc. are unattainable so it would be impossible for your boyfriend to get with any of them (or at least very very unlikely!).

    It is a bit hypocritical to imagine having sex with someone else and think its wrong that you do the same, so I see your point.
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    He's better of without you. Slut.
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    What everyone else is saying. Porns stars are people he'll never meet, your friends are potential relationship breakers.
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    (Original post by NeonSkies)
    It's like that advert where the girls are all naming hot celebs they would like to go out with, and when the girl's partner is asked the same question he says "your sister".

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OESLEOo3rqw

    It makes your boyfriend insecure because you could very easily go out and have sex with one of the people you know, but celebrities/porn stars etc. are unattainable so it would be impossible for your boyfriend to get with any of them (or at least very very unlikely!).

    It is a bit hypocritical to imagine having sex with someone else and think its wrong that you do the same, so I see your point.
    This one:
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    Well if you f*** him every day he won't even need to watch porn.
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    (Original post by U.S Lecce)
    This one:
    Yeah I didn't know how to put the vid on my post so I pasted the link. Funny advert.
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    If you are in a relationship and you are masturbating over other guys that you know, and he probably know, obviously he isnt going to be too pleased. If you ever told any of them that you masturbate over them then you could quite easily get them to do anything you wished.

    However, he is masturbating over people that he doesnt know, you dont know, he will never meet and he will NEVER get any chance of sleeping with them

    There are ways of patching this relationship up...but it would involve not being so honest with him anymore...
    Best thing to do...either leave him or wait for him to leave you...
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    (Original post by Mazty)
    Well you both sound nuts for two different reasons. You want to **** guys you know, your bf wants to **** women that he sees on his screen.
    Found a photo of your relationship:
    http://www.theferalscribe.com/wp-con.../crashr1gl.jpg

    (Original post by The_resurrection)
    He's better of without you. Slut.
    LMFAO at both comments
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    guys I know
    This is why.
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    The difference is quite obvious, as is the reason for him being upset. That's dumpworthy to be honest.
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    Are you out of your ****ing mind?
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    ouch!!!

    How would you feel if he told you he fantasises about shagging your best friend while he masterbates?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Me and my boyfriend, for some reason were talking about porn and masturbating. He said that while he watches it, he imagines having sex with that girl in that way while he.....pleasures himself. I don't get anything from porn, so I normally think about guys I know and think are rather hot.....I told him this and he got insecure and upset. Why is it fair for him to do it, but not me? Why would the fact I know them make any difference???
    The fact you know them obviously makes a massive difference.

    How can you NOT realize that? seriously.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Me and my boyfriend, for some reason were talking about porn and masturbating. He said that while he watches it, he imagines having sex with that girl in that way while he.....pleasures himself. I don't get anything from porn, so I normally think about guys I know and think are rather hot.....I told him this and he got insecure and upset. Why is it fair for him to do it, but not me? Why would the fact I know them make any difference???
    Honestly, I'd be quite annoyed in my gf told me this. Pornstars aren't really someone we can take action with, we'll never see them but these fellas are far too close to home for us.
 
 
 
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