I love my boyfriend, but I feel like our relationship is doomed to fail because of our age (19). I have basically accepted that there will come a time when he will want to "sow his oats" and have sex with women other than me - and not be in a relationship.
Is this an unhealthy way to be? Knowing your relationship will end at some point?
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- 18-03-2011 01:04
- 18-03-2011 01:06
- 18-03-2011 16:22
Kinda have the same feeling with my girlfriend, that its like a ticking timebomb
- 18-03-2011 16:24
I had this with my boyfriend. I just didn't see it lasting in the long term. but i hung out with him a lot, loved spending time with him, but tried not to get attached as i was going to uni etc. ended up getting attached. now broken up. so yeah. still hurts
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- 18-03-2011 16:25
I have basically accepted that there will come a time when he will want to "sow his oats" and have sex with women other than me - and not be in a relationship.
Has he done or said anything to suggest that, or are you just playing into the stereotype?
- 18-03-2011 16:29
Pretty much had that with my last relationship. We were together for a year but I always knew it would be me doing the breaking up and that it would come sooner or later. Through no fault of her, she was lovely, she had her faults but don't we all? I just seem to find myself needing something more. It was a good break up though. No hearts were broken, and to be honest if I'd left it much later I'd probably have done something dickish and people would have gotten hurt.
- 18-03-2011 16:33
i don't think mine will last once we leave uni
- 18-03-2011 16:35
I want to go travelling and can't see my relationship surviving that. It's not so much the long distance, just that I expect travelling will change me
- 18-03-2011 17:28
yea i keep having this feeling mine will probably end 17/08/2011 02:05 am GMT