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Hardest thing ever to deal with.

Only time really works and avoiding the person.
Go Out on the Pull...
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x Love x
^ I know exactly how you're feeling, im in exactly the same position! I think the only way is to really come to terms with it and do lots of stuff to keep your mind busy, so you think about him less.. dont know if it'll work, but thats what im trying to do..! ahh!
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Reply 4
Find someone else. Yes you can be happy alone, as can everyone. But perhaps now is a time to just move stuff into someone else.. even if its just another little crush, or something better?
Fill up your time as well. Just try and keep busy and see people. Not them. And don't let them rule over things, say if you talk to them a lot.. try and limit it to the amount you can cope with.

There isn't really a proper solution, but it'll get better.
I wish i knew. You have to think you deserve better, and that you can save your love for someone else! Im going to have to start thinking this way too!
Reply 6
Make no contact. Delete their mobile number, MSN details etc. It is the only way you will get over them. Trust me on this. I'm going through the same thing as you, and it is a lot easier when the person isn't still in your face all the time.
Reply 7
what if it's your teacher though? :blushing:
I'm 18 years old! I shouldn't still be having stupid crushes on teachers.
Reply 8
try things to put them out of your mind!!

like going out and having a laugh!!
and finding new people

its fun lol
Reply 9
I recently got told by the person I REALLY REALLY like atm that nothing is going to happen soon as he likes someone else more than me........but wait for it..........he also said if things fall through with this girl then we can make a go of it!!

Does he sound like a complete knob to you or what?!?! :mad:
Reply 10
farfalla4
what if it's your teacher though? :blushing:
I'm 18 years old! I shouldn't still be having stupid crushes on teachers.


Change classes?

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claireharmz
I recently got told by the person I REALLY REALLY like atm that nothing is going to happen soon as he likes someone else more than me........but wait for it..........he also said if things fall through with this girl then we can make a go of it!!

Does he sound like a complete knob to you or what?!?! :mad:


Yes. Never be second best to anyone. You can do better. :smile:
LubyLoo
Change classes?

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Yes. Never be second best to anyone. You can do better. :smile:


Yeah I suddenly really went off him! I wonder why!
Reply 12
Gasp_Alive
Go Out on the Pull...
Think Sexy...
Lick People!

x Love x


.....ookay....

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farfalla4
what if it's your teacher though? :blushing:
I'm 18 years old! I shouldn't still be having stupid crushes on teachers.


Hehe, there's no way to get over it but distance. And not indulging your mind.

it might take awhile but u'll get over him soon i had the same prod. i hope u can work it out.

good luck!!!
Angel :sw: :snoozing:
vent it kinda. like i do it through drawing and expressive stuff like that.
List all his faults on a list. And every day, look at that list and add to it.
In class remember everything on that list.
Imagine him being really nasty about you and/or him talking about you nastily behind your back.
Reply 16
Just engage you mind in other activities as much as possible
Reply 17
Just think that you're better than them and they don't know what they've missed out on and you CAN do better than that!
claireharmz
I recently got told by the person I REALLY REALLY like atm that nothing is going to happen soon as he likes someone else more than me........but wait for it..........he also said if things fall through with this girl then we can make a go of it!!

Does he sound like a complete knob to you or what?!?! :mad:


whoa. i wouldnt settle for that either. I hate men like that