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    Hey there

    I have not been on here for very long but I have found myself in need of some advice and have noticed that some of you (bar the trolls lol) give some good advice. I apologise in advance if this is incredibly boring, but anything anyone has to say I am sure will be helpful

    I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 months so far and it seems that already we argue too much for a new couple. He has a short temper and little things tend to annoy him easily, which he likes to take out on me. He is also incredibly unreliable when it comes to making plans. I understand that because of his work timetable that things are difficult to arrange, but it does sometimes bother me that when I tell him way in advance about something he doesn't make the effort to try and get it off work. He has never met any of my friends, despite me meeting many of his, and it is just starting to feel like to me that I am investing more effort into us than he is.

    I do not for one second believe I am a perfect girlfriend, I have my flaws. I am not saying he is a bad person, I am just wondering that if it is true that people never change, am I wasting my time with being with him now if months down the line it is going to get worse?

    Sorry for the long post!

    It's only been 2 months, chill.
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