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How to react to a girl who tries to make you jealous? watch

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    So first of all, I like a girl. She's shown signs of liking me. I feel I've played it a bit too cool around her, I rarely if ever comment on her Facebook and at once I gave her a hug, although I do try to talk to her in person whenever I can. We've been speaking for about two months.

    So yesterday I was with her and she started being flirtatious towards two guys. One of them, a mate of mine who has a girlfriend (which I would assume she's aware of) she went over to him and rubbed his arm as a greeting. Then she started rubbing his back, and grabbing the back of his head.

    This actually hurt quite a bit. She tried striking up a conversation later on about a teacher when it was just me and her, and I just responded with one-worded responses, because she just made me feel miserable. And maybe subconsciously I was trying to make her feel bad, or aware that she had upset me.

    But would the "act distant/guilt trip" thing be a good move? If not, how should I deal with a girl like this?
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    Pretty simple. Just ignore them. Not worth your time.
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    Dont let Girls play games with you, dont pitch the *****. And obviously youve got no game if youre too much of a pussy to do anything after 2 months.

    Not bein a ****, just sayin
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    don't show her that you're jealous and watch her think she's failed
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    Dude, stop beating around the bush, ask her for a walk, hint her that you have feelings for her (dont tell her you love her) and ask her what she thiks about you.
    You knew her for so long, even if she likes you she might be thinking that you are not interested, so she will obviously be looking for another guy.
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    GTFO out of here. You don't need to play childish games with her
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    She can do what she likes. Maybe she doesn't fancy you, and sees you as a friend rather than boyfriend material.

    You've done very little to show you're interested. If you want exclusive rights, you have to be going out with her. Man up and ask, or just put up with it.
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    she obviously likes u reaally much to go through all that trouble sooo go for it u obviously unconsciously hv feelings 4 her...go 4 it
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    (Original post by jimbo139)
    She can do what she likes. Maybe she doesn't fancy you, and sees you as a friend rather than boyfriend material.

    You've done very little to show you're interested. If you want exclusive rights, you have to be going out with her. Man up and ask, or just put up with it.
    This! ****ing well said.
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    I really don't think she was trying to make you jealous, so if you act 'off' with her she will just think you're being weird. You aren't even in a relationship and from what you've said you haven't really done anything to get with her so she has no obligations to you. You need to tell her how you feel, see what she says and go from there.
 
 
 
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