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    I think he is cheating on my mum. He has been ordering viagra pills online and he has been speaking to a woman from work prior to that for months. I feel sick that he could do this, they have been married for over 20 years. I know that they are not close anymore as he works away from home most days. He is a desperate. horny, man and a perv as he is always taking photos of girls randomly in the street and generally being a perv. It makes me ill and I am so down and alone
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    what do I do now?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    what do I do now?
    http://i1113.photobucket.com/albums/...f?t=1300499205
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    How do you know he is cheating? He takes photos of girls in the street okay, wierd but still doesnt mean he is cheating. Obviously the Viagra also doesnt mean he is cheating. Just saying theres two sides to a story and you dont exactly have evidence. Speaking to a woman doesnt mean cheating.
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    (Original post by 123-ABC)
    How do you know he is cheating? He takes photos of girls in the street okay, wierd but still doesnt mean he is cheating. Obviously the Viagra also doesnt mean he is cheating. Just saying theres two sides to a story and you dont exactly have evidence. Speaking to a woman doesnt mean cheating.
    I saw email exchanges between them saying he wants to meet her in a car park at night.
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    I saw email exchanges between them saying he wants to meet her in a car park at night.
    Perhaps he's dealing cars.
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    Maybe your mum should join a gym.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I think he is cheating on my mum. He has been ordering viagra pills online and he has been speaking to a woman from work prior to that for months. I feel sick that he could do this, they have been married for over 20 years. I know that they are not close anymore as he works away from home most days. He is a desperate. horny, man and a perv as he is always taking photos of girls randomly in the street and generally being a perv. It makes me ill and I am so down and alone
    Thats rather worrying

    Maybe have a word with him about these things, if he knows you know maybe he will be ashamed and stop doing it (well hopefully)
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    the other woman is worth it
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    you'll get over it within time....and move on to being indifferent believe me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I saw email exchanges between them saying he wants to meet her in a car park at night.
    In that case maybe you should confront him, he'll tell the truth if not bring up the emails maybe if you wanna get to the bottom of it, otherwise if you dont want to argue or anything just let it be which is kind of hard.
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    In that case maybe you should confront him, he'll tell the truth if not bring up the emails maybe if you wanna get to the bottom of it, otherwise if you dont want to argue or anything just let it be which is kind of hard.
    My sister confronted him months back, he denied it. But after seeing he has ordered these pills I feel physically sick to the core. Oh **** it. People like him are better of dead.
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    My sister confronted him months back, he denied it. But after seeing he has ordered these pills I feel physically sick to the core. Oh **** it. People like him are better of dead.
    And what about your mom, she dont know? Shes still married to him.
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    have you actually seen him just take a picture of a girl on the st?
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    And what about your mom, she dont know? Shes still married to him.
    No she doesn't. Can't bear to tell her. She has been through hell with her mum being depressed and us guys having problems, that's the last thing she needs.
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    how did you see his emails?
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    have you actually seen him just take a picture of a girl on the st?
    Yeah loads. He tries to do it discreetly but it's obvious to me. And by "girls" I don't necessarily mean young girls, I just mean females.
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    And presumptious people like you are idiots.

    Firstly you've got no proof, just conjecture. Secondly, just how happy is your parents marriage? I don't mean to be crude, but if you're mum's not interested anymore, myabe that'd be a reason for him playing away? I know I'm gunna get neg for that but I feel it has to be said anyway.

    Basically, before you put all the blame on him find out the actual situation.
 
 
 
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