I'd really appreciate your advice on this one...
I've just turned 18 years old and I think I quite like this girl, but she's only 14. If we didn't have such an age gap then I think I probably would ask her out but I'm not so sure that I should given the difference in age.
You guys on this forum are really great, intelligent people - It'd really mean so much to me to have your opinions.
Thanks for reading this.
As long as your motive isn't pushing her into sex, then go for it. But the age gap will be a big problem, but if you can overcome it then that's great.
Hello? Shes 14 pal, switch on for a second here, that would mean a year 10, at 18, the unwritten rule is, year 11s are the youngest you can go for, unlucky mate.
What about just seeing her a couple of times, like going up town, going for a meal, pictures etc. etc. And if you still feel strongly for her then maybe starting having a half relationship, she may annoy you to hell and back she may not. Don't pressurise her into anything. Just trust your self and if things start to go a little of track it may be time to give it up.
well 2 more ppl have voted yes