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    Depends! There is no one answer, no right or wrong. Everyone is different, if you have trouble you probably need to relax more and stop worrying about it.
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    (Original post by CallumG)
    Move there.
    Sure thing. Can you give me enough money to cover the costs of living there and the money I'll miss out on if I don't complete my education though? That seems to be stopping me at the moment.
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    Alot depends on what mood i'm in really as silly as it sounds :-p Normally about 5 minutes or so, though sometimes when i'm really in the mood as little as 2-3 minutes, or from time to time 10 minutes plus. It's particularly annoying when you're really quite in the mood but just can't orgasm whatever you do! Grr

    In terms of mutual masturbation it tends to be a bit longer, normally about 7-8 minutes i guess. It's hard to tell without sitting there without a stopwatch next to me
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    30-45 minutes if I'm starting from pretty much no arousal (like I'm just bored or want to get to sleep). Although it can take much longer, either because I make it or because nothing's turning me on.

    10-15 minutes if I'm really turned on and pretty much there already.
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    not usually more than 5 mins, depends what mood i'm in and if i'm watching porn
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    for me it takes 12 minutes
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    can do it in seconds if I want to. With a partner it takes more like 20-40 minutes, if at all.
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    Depends on how much I'm horny .. how I started the masturbation ... what I'm watching (am I alone ) ...
    But sure for 10 minutes (if I try to don't have the orgasm quickly - it will last longer)
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    usually around half an hour- 15 mins at least
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    Anywhere from 5 minutes to like 45 minutes. It depends.
    One time I did it in a matter of seconds though I had been thinking about things a lot before. :p:
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    20 - 30 minutes, I enjoy it I like it to last quite a long time.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Anywhere from 5 minutes to like 45 minutes. It depends.
    One time I did it in a matter of seconds though I had been thinking about things a lot before. :p:
    I suspect that’s not uncommon for most women.

    My partner claims that she never, ever touches herself but, she readily acknowledges that she can reach orgasm within a minute whenever she is aroused and feels the need for release whether it’s caused from watching porn, reading erotica or whatever, simply by contracting her vaginal muscles.

    Should men ever discover that they have a similar ability, I would strongly recommend investing heavily into this new product, Maxipads for Men (patent pending) lol.
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    I'm sorry but I have been masturbating for about 3 years and it has never taken me longer than 30 secs to 1 minute to reach climax (obviously i have drawn it our for pleasure on numerous occasions). I can't believe it can take someone more than 5 minutes let alone an hour?!?! i think you are either stressed out, don't know yourself well enough or have the completely wrong technique. my boyfriend however does take longer than I do simply because he has not mastered the technique. maybe if you elaborated on your technique i could explain it, but otherwise it just sounds ridiculous to me!
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    (Original post by VickyJ)
    I'm sorry but I have been masturbating for about 3 years and it has never taken me longer than 30 secs to 1 minute to reach climax (obviously i have drawn it our for pleasure on numerous occasions). I can't believe it can take someone more than 5 minutes let alone an hour?!?! i think you are either stressed out, don't know yourself well enough or have the completely wrong technique. my boyfriend however does take longer than I do simply because he has not mastered the technique. maybe if you elaborated on your technique i could explain it, but otherwise it just sounds ridiculous to me!
    You're talking about it like it's a bad thing that it takes people more than 30 seconds to orgasm but, uh, why would you want it to last only 30 seconds? :lolwut:

    If "mastering" the technique means orgasming in 30 seconds, I think I'd rather not...
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    (Original post by Pink Bullets)
    You're talking about it like it's a bad thing that it takes people more than 30 seconds to orgasm but, uh, why would you want it to last only 30 seconds? :lolwut:

    If "mastering" the technique means orgasming in 30 seconds, I think I'd rather not...
    But if you can orgasm in 30 seconds, that's 60 orgasms in 30 minutes as opposed to one :cool:
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    (Original post by Tom360)
    But if you can orgasm in 30 seconds, that's 60 orgasms in 30 minutes as opposed to one :cool:
    Err it doesn't work like that...
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    (Original post by Pink Bullets)
    Err it doesn't work like that...
    But if it did...
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    I still cant orgasm at all through masturbation let alone sex...i can get SO close and then lose it so count yourself lucky!
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    (Original post by VickyJ)
    I'm sorry but I have been masturbating for about 3 years and it has never taken me longer than 30 secs to 1 minute to reach climax (obviously i have drawn it our for pleasure on numerous occasions). I can't believe it can take someone more than 5 minutes let alone an hour?!?! i think you are either stressed out, don't know yourself well enough or have the completely wrong technique. my boyfriend however does take longer than I do simply because he has not mastered the technique. maybe if you elaborated on your technique i could explain it, but otherwise it just sounds ridiculous to me!
    Uh, I think I know what I like haha. I come much quicker with both g-spot and clitoral stimulation, so I'll rub my clit for a few minutes and then use dildo for g-spot in conjunction with my fingers.

    How do you get that aroused that quickly? Goodness.
    And no, I'm not stressed. And no, I don't have the wrong technique. Simply because it's not your technique or another girl's technique does not mean it's "wrong".
 
 
 
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