I was going to just answer "Straight up, yes." It would definitely get my attention.
But truthfully, not that much. For about 30 secs.
It's about more than the £60 mil, it's how he got it. If he was a powerful man... running things or in charge or at the top of the food chain kinda deal... well. Power is sexy.
edit: I'm clearly watching too much Mad Men/Wall Street type stuff.
Owning 60 million pounds is an attractive goal for men. Finding a wife with 60 million pounds isnt something we think about.
I'm just explaining that it's one of the fundamental examples of how men and women are different. A woman's value lays mostly in her looks and maternal abilities. Women tend to be about as useful as a slug when it comes to anything else.
This is why men lead innovation and always will. A man's instinct is to seek success and wealth. A woman's instinct is to seek the man with those attributes.
Don't know why you feel the need to enlighten me or whatever, but the question was directed towards women anyway, not men. You're right, in general men have a different attitude to a partner with money. The rest of your points are quite sexist so I won't really bother responding to them.
fair enough, is he a spoilt kid r is it self made?
Nope, all self made. Moved out at 18 because he hated his home and a year later with networking get a bunch of business opportunities. Guarantee in a year he'll be a millionaire owing he owns 10% in a few business that are set to sell for a few mill next year on top of his 60k a year wages he's already earning. He's ambitious which is appealing, but it's not enough...Long distance of him living in Canada, i dont want to finish Uni having only seen a boyfriend for 2 times a year and spending my summers seeing him when for example next year, i want to go to Tanzania for my 21st and climb Kilimanjaro. So yea, many things i want to do before i can deal with that amount of dedication.
Aw. Good for you. Did you not feel the same, then? He should've offered to come with you, seeing as he could afford it, rather than try to stop you from going.
No doubt he may have came. But he does have work etc which is hard to get time off.
And tbh, Europe is about traveling with a bunch of mates and having a good laugh. Next summer i'm aiming for internships or additional courses at the University as well as going to Tanzania for my 21st to climb Kilimanjaro.
He's an awesome guy, but a long distance relationship in Canada is a bit too much. I don't want to finish university having spent all of my Summers in Canada as awesome as it is, and pass up on all the experiences I could be having and time spent with friends.
He wants a lot of dedication is is quite literally willing to Marry me right now. But i want more experience in relationships...and life...and that can't be bought .