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I think I've gone from being bullied to a bully........? watch

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    So when I was at school, I got bullied pretty badly bth mentally and physically and betrayed by several people. I couldn't understand as all I ever was, was nice and respectful to people. I was also small and defenceless and just had to suck it up.

    However, now Im 6"2 and have gt considerably bigger, I just try to physically intimidate a lot of men and try to assert my dominance over them and I will just get angry for no reason. If anyone says the slightest thing, even banter, I just immediately retaliate and don't take any ****. Also, if I play someone at sport, I dont just want to beat them, I want to humiliate them! I don't like who I've become but I always have that little kid in the back of my mind from school and how Im determined not to let that happen again. Do you reckon I need counselling or something
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    Don't do it, otherwise I'll have to pay for your prison sentence.
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    There are plenty of people who were bullied who managed to remain nice people, so stop making excuses and being a ****.
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    You nasty git.
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    (Original post by Cicerao)
    There are plenty of people who were bullied who managed to remain nice people, so stop making excuses and being a ****.
    lol this ^
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    (Original post by Cicerao)
    There are plenty of people who were bullied who managed to remain nice people, so stop making excuses and being a ****.
    Obv you havent been bullied then yu ignorant *****
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    Errrrrr.. you need to man the **** down.
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    cam down cam down
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    http://www.figment-online.org/kittyp...otos/bully.jpg
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Obv you havent been bullied then yu ignorant *****
    I actually was.

    Have a nice day.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Obv you havent been bullied then yu ignorant *****
    Ohhh now you're cyber bullying?
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    It happens
    In the morning say to yourself 'today I will have a kind heart towards others'
    Other something along those lines. Dont make anyone else go through what you went through as a kid.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Obv you havent been bullied then yu ignorant *****
    I was bullied and I have never, nor would I ever, bully other people. Why is she ignorant for pointing out that not everyone feels the need to carry on the bullying? It's not a rule that we have to bully others if we've been bullied ourselves.
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    So you're using the fact you were bullied as an excuse for being a ****?

    Nice one.
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    you're overcompensating.

    just chill out, focus on yourself.
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    I used to be like this before i realised what a **** i was.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So when I was at school, I got bullied pretty badly bth mentally and physically and betrayed by several people. I couldn't understand as all I ever was, was nice and respectful to people. I was also small and defenceless and just had to suck it up.

    However, now Im 6"2 and have gt considerably bigger, I just try to physically intimidate a lot of men and try to assert my dominance over them and I will just get angry for no reason. If anyone says the slightest thing, even banter, I just immediately retaliate and don't take any ****. Also, if I play someone at sport, I dont just want to beat them, I want to humiliate them! I don't like who I've become but I always have that little kid in the back of my mind from school and how Im determined not to let that happen again. Do you reckon I need counselling or something
    Good for you! I can't stop being bullied :/
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    Ring childline.
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    You need to let go. Most people were bullied as a kid - I certainly was. It means you don't take any sh*t yes, but not to the point where you become the bully yourself. That makes you no better than them.
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