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    (Original post by Charlski)
    How on earth do you know whether or not your parents have sex?
    Because he works away from home...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Because he works away from home...
    So? Surely he spends some time at home? Does he work away from home 365 days and nights a year?
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    (Original post by Charlski)
    So? Surely he spends some time at home? Does he work away from home 365 days and nights a year?
    My mum hasconfided in me many a time that he doesn't come anywhere near her and that she feels inadequate about it. I don't want to spend my time proving to you what I know is fact and rather try to get the bottom of why he is buying penis enlargement pills and whether he is cheating or not.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My mum hasconfided in me many a time that he doesn't come anywhere near her and that she feels inadequate about it. I don't want to spend my time proving to you what I know is fact and rather try to get the bottom of why he is buying penis enlargement pills and whether he is cheating or not.

    Well frankly the fact of whether they sleep together or not is rather important to the matter and actual proof that they don't is pretty essential. Perhaps he doesn't want to have sex with her anymore because he's lost confidence in the size of his penis and it's him feeling inadequate, thus he's buying penis enlargement pills? Just an idea - it happens.
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    (Original post by Charlski)
    Well frankly the fact of whether they sleep together or not is rather important to the matter and actual proof that they don't is pretty essential. Perhaps he doesn't want to have sex with her anymore because he's lost confidence in the size of his penis and it's him feeling inadequate, thus he's buying penis enlargement pills? Just an idea - it happens.
    She sleeps alone most nights while he works. When he comes home he stays downstairs until she sleeps (watching porn, I have seen the history on many occasions) and then goes upstairs when she is already fast asleep. He has not slept with her for over a decade is what she told me. I definitely don't think it's because of his penis size. I just don't think he loves her or is attracted to her. It's plain obvious to see.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She sleeps alone most nights while he works. When he comes home he stays downstairs until she sleeps (watching porn, I have seen the history on many occasions) and then goes upstairs when she is already fast asleep. He has not slept with her for over a decade is what she told me. I definitely don't think it's because of his penis size. I just don't think he loves her or is attracted to her. It's plain obvious to see.


    But the fact he's buying enlargement pills clearly shows he's insecure about his size and this could well be what the lack of sex etc stems from.


    I just don't think you should conclude he's having an affair without actual proof of it. If you're really concerned, talk to him and tell him the truth about what you saw, but don't accuse.
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    lol !
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    (Original post by Charlski)
    But the fact he's buying enlargement pills clearly shows he's insecure about his size and this could well be what the lack of sex etc stems from.


    I just don't think you should conclude he's having an affair without actual proof of it. If you're really concerned, talk to him and tell him the truth about what you saw, but don't accuse.
    The email exchanges between him and a colleague saying he wants to meet her in a hotel and whether she is happy with her husband and saying he has dirty desires....
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    What it means is that excessive mocking is in order.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Have you tried them? My dad is a mug generally. He's blown over £500 on these products. My point is....could he be cheating on my mum? Sigh. Stupid insecure person.

    you didnt mention anything about him cheating on your mum, you asked why he would buy them nothing about affairs.

    And are you referring to yourself as a stupid insecure person or your dad? why are you jumping to the conclusion your dad is cheating? Why are you so sure that your parents dont have sex?

    edit* just seen other posts - stay out of your dads personal emails. Its amazing how much more of this story keeps coming out as more people catch you out on details.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The email exchanges between him and a colleague saying he wants to meet her in a hotel and whether she is happy with her husband and saying he has dirty desires....

    I can't help but think you're making this up as you go along now. Why didn't you put any of this in your OP?

    You've also gone from saying you 'have a feeling' he's not satidfied with your mum as they barely hug or whatever to saying she's told you they don't have a sex life. Sorry, I'm just finding it a little hard to believe everything.
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    (Original post by Charlski)
    I can't help but think you're making this up as you go along now. Why didn't you put any of this in your OP?

    You've also gone from saying you 'have a feeling' he's not satidfied with your mum as they barely hug or whatever to saying she's told you they don't have a sex life. Sorry, I'm just finding it a little hard to believe everything.

    FFS I couldn't be bothered to write a massively long essay and put people off. This has been going on for months. Why the **** would I be up at stupid o'clock in the morning to write this to make it up to some ***** I've never even met? I have made several threads related to this regarding a cheating dad and I can't be bothered to prove to a paranoid cow that I am telling the truth. So **** off, if you don't believe me, I don't care. I couldn't be bothered to write every last detail in my thread, fact is I KNOW he doesn't sleep with my mum, I SUSPECT he is cheating on her from the email exchanges that have been going on from months and RECENTLY I discovered he has been buying enlargement pills and I am trying to piece it all together. What's so hard to figure out? :rolleyes:
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    you didnt mention anything about him cheating on your mum, you asked why he would buy them nothing about affairs.

    And are you referring to yourself as a stupid insecure person or your dad? why are you jumping to the conclusion your dad is cheating? Why are you so sure that your parents dont have sex?

    edit* just seen other posts - stay out of your dads personal emails. Its amazing how much more of this story keeps coming out as more people catch you out on details.
    Here is the original thread I made
    http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...t=cheating+dad

    So stop ****ing doubting me, this IS true and I wrote here for advice not for people to accuse me of lying when I am already ****ing down and depressed as it is. There's loads of minor details to this story, obviously if I was to sit and write it all out it would be one ****ing massive essay which I cannot be arsed to do.
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    (Original post by Charlski)
    I can't help but think you're making this up as you go along now. Why didn't you put any of this in your OP?

    You've also gone from saying you 'have a feeling' he's not satidfied with your mum as they barely hug or whatever to saying she's told you they don't have a sex life. Sorry, I'm just finding it a little hard to believe everything.
    Here is the original thread I made
    http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...t=cheating+dad

    So stop ****ing doubting me, this IS true and I wrote here for advice not for people to accuse me of lying when I am already ****ing down and depressed as it is. There's loads of minor details to this story, obviously if I was to sit and write it all out it would be one ****ing massive essay which I cannot be arsed to do.
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    you didnt mention anything about him cheating on your mum, you asked why he would buy them nothing about affairs.

    And are you referring to yourself as a stupid insecure person or your dad? why are you jumping to the conclusion your dad is cheating? Why are you so sure that your parents dont have sex?

    edit* just seen other posts - stay out of your dads personal emails. Its amazing how much more of this story keeps coming out as more people catch you out on details.
    If you had any common sense you would realise there are loads of dimensions and minor details to a story which would be impossible to list one by one on here, in person it would make sense but to type it in a way which makes sense is virtually impossible. I am not being consistent because there's loads of little details which come out as people prompt me, it's not something I would think to volunteer straight up, I couldn't be arsed to write a detailed thread at the start presenting all the facts exactly how they are because otherwise I would have had to write an essay so thought I'd allow people to respond then gradually fill them in on the detail. It really isn't that hard to understand.
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    I can't help but think you're making this up as you go along now. Why didn't you put any of this in your OP?

    You've also gone from saying you 'have a feeling' he's not satidfied with your mum as they barely hug or whatever to saying she's told you they don't have a sex life. Sorry, I'm just finding it a little hard to believe everything.
    If you had any common sense you would realise there are loads of dimensions and minor details to a story which would be impossible to list one by one on here, in person it would make sense but to type it in a way which makes sense is virtually impossible. I am not being consistent because there's loads of little details which come out as people prompt me, it's not something I would think to volunteer straight up, I couldn't be arsed to write a detailed thread at the start presenting all the facts exactly how they are because otherwise I would have had to write an essay so thought I'd allow people to respond then gradually fill them in on the detail. It really isn't that hard to understand. Some people are so defensive and paranoid it's unbelievable. :rolleyes:
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    I don't think your dad's penis size is the problem here...


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The email exchanges between him and a colleague saying he wants to meet her in a hotel and whether she is happy with her husband and saying he has dirty desires....
    Doesn't this quite blatantly tell you something?? That he is either cheating, or planning on cheating.

    Show your mum the emails, she doesn't deserve to be taken for a mug.
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    No need to go overboard on defending yourself!

    It would just be more convincing to me if you'd put all the detail in the OP. Wouldn't have been a massive post, would it?

    'My dad is buying penis enlargement pills and exchanging dirty emails with a colleague suggesting they meet up in hotels. He works away from home a lot and my mum has told me they haven't had sex in ten years. The amount he's spending on these pills is enormous and I'm worried he's having an affair, what shall I do?'

    Instead, particularly because the thread appeared, at first, to be about the pills, not about the work colleague, it looks like you've made things up as you go along in order to push the thread in a particular way.
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    (Original post by Charlski)
    No need to go overboard on defending yourself!

    It would just be more convincing to me if you'd put all the detail in the OP. Wouldn't have been a massive post, would it?

    'My dad is buying penis enlargement pills and exchanging dirty emails with a colleague suggesting they meet up in hotels. He works away from home a lot and my mum has told me they haven't had sex in ten years. The amount he's spending on these pills is enormous and I'm worried he's having an affair, what shall I do?'

    Instead, particularly because the thread appeared, at first, to be about the pills, not about the work colleague, it looks like you've made things up as you go along in order to push the thread in a particular way.
    Also in the other thread op said that they were planing to meet up in a car park :/
    So OP which is it car park or hotel?
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    Let him buy them, he needs them for...Research.
 
 
 
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