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    Well, I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year now. We got on like a house on fire as soon as we started talking but for the first couple of months I only saw it as a sort of friends with benefits type thing even though we must have seemed quite coupley. I didn't want to get attached and done well with this for quite a while. He asked me to make us official when we were really drunk one day and I said OK. For a good while I stayed in the frame of mind that I wasn't too bothered if it didn't work out.

    He would tell me all this stuff that he'd done in the past, I don't really know why tbh, but I think it was to try and impress me or make him seem like some sorta big shot but it all kinda went in one ear and out the other with me because the stuff he would tell me wasn't exactly impressive!!

    He's lovely and all but now that the relationship has gotten quite deep now, when think back to the stuff he'd told me I just feel discusted now. I don't say anything to him about it, becasue, well, I don't really have the right to because I was told it all aaaages ago. Even if I did say something I would just seem like a nag or a drama and I don't wanna be like that.

    Has anyone been in a similar situation? I know the past is the past but when I think of the stuff he told me, god knows if half of its even true, but I just think "eeew" and it makes me shiver lol.

    Don't know if this quite made sense but, hey, I tried!

    Yeah I've been in a similar situation to that, but what exactly was it that he said?
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