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Boyfriend Worries!!!

I have a bf thts 2 years olda thn me and my mates hav jus rung me to tell me tht theyve seen him in the local bus station holdin hands wi 2 girls and i personally know -- from past experiences -- tht it is possible for him to cheat and i onli find out afta hes dun it so will sum1 plz advise me on wat to do cos i really dont no!!!
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HELP

Luv Sammy xxx
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Reply 1
Well it would be rather odd if you found out *before* he did it :confused:
What exactly do you expect people to do?!

Go on, run down to the bus station and see for yourself :tongue:
Reply 2
i hold hands with my girlfriends... then again im gay so thats different!

no but seriously, you might not wanna just be jumping in, making accusations when you don't really know what's going on... but if you strongly believe that he is playing you, then just get rid of the bastard. he really isnt worth the trouble if he's goin to mess you around.

u could maybe try to subtly talk to him about it... then again, that will no doubt lead to an argument. it depends how you wanna play it. i personally would confront him about it. you obviously have reason to doubt his trust and if he cant handle that then its his fault and his problem.
Reply 3
purchase a hazy escape in the alcohol place in the chase....weeping n drowning ur senses.....cuz this love game's expensive....
How come Your friends Are out without you?
Anyway...I think you should phone him up...if you hear buses
then ask your friends what hes doing....If they say hes on the phone to someone whilst holding a girls hand then you may have a worry...
Otherwise try not to
Reply 5
he's holding hands with 2 girls? what's he going for, a threesome? he might just be friends with them unless they were kissing...

i agree go down to the bus stop yourself....
Reply 6
Pink_Fairy101
I have a bf thts 2 years olda thn me and my mates hav jus rung me to tell me tht theyve seen him in the local bus station holdin hands wi 2 girls and i personally know -- from past experiences -- tht it is possible for him to cheat and i onli find out afta hes dun it so will sum1 plz advise me on wat to do cos i really dont no!!!
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HELP

Luv Sammy xxx
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Maybe he's found someone that can type properly - no 'txtspk' please it drives me insane...
Pink_Fairy101
I have a bf thts 2 years olda thn me and my mates hav jus rung me to tell me tht theyve seen him in the local bus station holdin hands wi 2 girls and i personally know -- from past experiences -- tht it is possible for him to cheat and i onli find out afta hes dun it so will sum1 plz advise me on wat to do cos i really dont no!!!
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HELP

Luv Sammy xxx
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1.text properly
2.text him/call him...ask
3.dump him
Reply 8
TrentEnd
Maybe he's found someone that can type properly - no 'txtspk' please it drives me insane...

haha it drives me insane too.
Reply 9
Pink_Fairy101
I have a bf thts 2 years olda thn me and my mates hav jus rung me to tell me tht theyve seen him in the local bus station holdin hands wi 2 girls and i personally know -- from past experiences -- tht it is possible for him to cheat and i onli find out afta hes dun it so will sum1 plz advise me on wat to do cos i really dont no!!!
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HELP

Luv Sammy xxx
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your 16 im sure u have bigger things 2 worry bout!
its 2 girls!!! highly doubt hes goin 2 have a threesome so ever thought they may just be friends? if he was holding hands with just 1 it may be more suspicious! Just ring him!
Reply 10
Pink_Fairy101
I have a bf thts 2 years olda thn me and my mates hav jus rung me to tell me tht theyve seen him in the local bus station holdin hands wi 2 girls and i personally know -- from past experiences -- tht it is possible for him to cheat and i onli find out afta hes dun it so will sum1 plz advise me on wat to do cos i really dont no!!!
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HELP

Luv Sammy xxx
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Let's try this again.

I have a boyfriend who is 2 years older than me, and my friends have just called me to tell me that they've seen him in the local bus station holding hands with two girls, and I personally know from past experience that it is possible for him to cheat. I only ever find out after he's done it, so will someone please advise me on what to do because I really don't know!

Is it THAT hard?

Oh and by the way, as with most advice on this forum, I'm sticking with DUMP HIM!
The best advice in this thread has been to TYPE PROPERLY
Reply 12
Oh Well Thank you For All Your Help I Have Now Dumped Him I Found Out He Was Dating One Of The Girls WHilst He Was Dating Me So I Jacked Him Thank You Sammy
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(Did You Notice That I Typed Properly)
Reply 13
With all capital letters. They're really not necessary you know....
Reply 14
Poica
With all capital letters. They're really not necessary you know....


Oh my god are you people never happy jesus you really need to be niceer to people
Kick him in the crotch and run!
I'd ask him first before making any hasty decisions. Trouble is obviously he will deny it.
Pink_Fairy101
Poica
With all capital letters. They're really not necessary you know....


Oh my god are you people never happy jesus you really need to be niceer to people



see posts above about typing *laughs*