I disagree. I think it depends on context. Telling a girl she is ugly could really damage her. Girls tend to be more sensitive than guys. I think the OP did the right thing and the best thing to just make sure you don't flirt with her or even pass her with any compliments that may give the wrong impression. She'll get the message.(Original post by Misnomer)
It wasn't a nice thing you did for her. It was selfish. You aren't doing her any favours. Everyone is so obsessed with looks and she is one of them, maybe she should look for self value in other areas of her life.
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- 22-03-2011 03:39
- 22-03-2011 03:46
Stay friends with her, she sounds like she has a good personality, why wouldnt u want to know her? She may not be the most attractive perosn, but that grows when someone has a good personality... Just expain to her very nicely that your busy and you can't take all her calls??
- 22-03-2011 09:07
Just don't lead her on. Be friendly, but not too friendly. Maybe tell her you like her, but not in that way.
- 22-03-2011 09:13
Tell her to bend over.
- 22-03-2011 09:52
Don't tell her shes really ugly just say you value her friendship and you arent looking for anything else
or you dont see her that way
Try to be nice about it but be straight