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    (Original post by yellowmeringue)
    No, never. If you're standing on street corners in revealing clothing, that could explain why randomers are 'asking' to kiss you...:holmes:
    No I don't do that. Or at least no more than the average 18 year old girl...(which I guess doesn't say much, but still, it's not like I wander around in my knickers and leather boots)...normally I'm just walking around doing my own thing...and then I get grabbed...

    I don't get it. I thought at least one person would have experienced this?
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    (Original post by shy-girl666)
    ummm well obviously it would depend on the guy but i think the thought of it all.

    reminds me of that scene from 'yes man'. 'oh yeah random make out guy from the park' lol i luv it. adds a bit of spice to life never happened to me though x
    Trust me, you don't want it happening to you. You feel like it should be flattering but it's just awkward, and you either end up feeling like a slut or a b*tch...
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    Trust me, you don't want it happening to you. You feel like it should be flattering but it's just awkward, and you either end up feeling like a slut or a b*tch...
    been kissing the wrong guys i recon!?

    but if it was a random guy (or girl) in the street/college/uni i would only allow a peck not a full blown snog! lol x
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    been kissing the wrong guys i recon!?

    but if it was a random guy (or girl) in the street/college/uni i would only allow a peck not a full blown snog! lol x
    I mean that if a randomer asks me to kiss him I feel like a slut for agreeing because I don't know anything about him, but I feel like a b*tch/snob for saying no, if you get me?

    Yeah, that is what I usually do, but then they seem to pursue Made me feel like there must be a better solution...
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    I mean that if a randomer asks me to kiss him I feel like a slut for agreeing because I don't know anything about him, but I feel like a b*tch/snob for saying no, if you get me?

    Yeah, that is what I usually do, but then they seem to pursue Made me feel like there must be a better solution...
    well say no, but dont say it in a 'nasty/snobby' way. say it in jokey/flirty sorta way like, 'ha sorry mate i dont know you, but thanks for the offer'. lol.

    but is it really that big a problem!!? guys nowadays are kinda shy unless drunk that is. x
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hehe, I might just try that. I don't know about that - I'm just worried I come across as easy/vulnerable :/
    To make it better you can carry latex gloves around and put it on in front of them! And have a royal expression on your face!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well yeah, to be fair it has only happened like six times (which I felt was enough to be concerned as normally people try to get to know others before kissing them ) and four of those were drunk, three in clubs, so it usually is the atmosphere I think.

    I hope they don't do it for a dare. That would be mean :/ But they're usually alone so I'd like to think not...
    Well the only times I allow a guy to kiss me is if we're dating, he's my bf, or we're playing a spin the bottle game, but usually if I don't have feelings for the guy then I only allow them a quick kiss!

    Usually otherwise they're just drunk or are after a ONS.
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    I could understand (maybe) a guy asking you in a club (it's still cringey but yeah) but randomly in the street?! WTF.
 
 
 
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