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    uni student, girl living with 3 boys. one housemate shuts himself away and is just angsty and broody all the time so i never see him. another is always at his girlfriends house, and the other always has his girlfriend here and i'm fed up of being their third wheel and that's only when they're not shut away together- like the other day they invited themselves in my room 1am when i wanted to sleep and started making disgusting innuendos at each other like i wasnt even there and i just had to ask them to leave.

    i hate living here. i have other friends that i see alot but it's just not enough and i cant invade their houses any more than i do, they all have relationships and work to do. i just hate it, living like this is so hard i want to go home simply because my family always want to be doing something which is what i'm used to so i like being comfortable and having people i can talk to and hang out with alot, but i cant go home because i have exams every week and i'm starting to get worse and worse because i hate being alone. i just cracked and even now i'm trying not to cry to loudly so i dont have a hoard of couples invite themselves into my room to tell me how i should be feeling and not even listen to me. i have to last another 3 months and i'm scared because last time i was this lonely i just got seriously ill - had mitigating circumstances in my exams etc etc.

    i just need a rant. reassurance? talk to me??? how do you cope living so isolated?
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    Mate, I totally understand. You're not getting laid. It happens to all of us. All you have to do is put that third wheel into action, AND F*CK THEM ALL, singing " Just haven't met you yet". It'll work.

    Good luck man
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    Well, the number of men is perfect for 3 holes. Take one (or three) for the team and endure it till the end while getting *** all over nice black sheets, laptop/pc, cellphone, hair, butthole, pretty much everything.
    THe other option is, of course, bukkakke (sorry for misspelling)
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    I know how you feel. Although my flatmates are alright, I hardly ever see them and I don't do much with them. I see my friends, but it does get really lonely! I try not to be on my own at weekends, so I either invite my bf round or go to his or go home. During the week I just try and distract myself from the loneliness by doing work/watching movies/ iPlayer, playing games, TSR, keeping my blog, playing badminton, going for a run, going skating, just going for a walk etc! just generally keeping myself busy! It seems to work and at least I've got the weekends when I'm with people. Just pack your days with stuff to do and you won't notice the loneliness! Hope this helps
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    I f*cked a pidgeon yesterday
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    but seriously don't you have any other single friends? just ring them up an make sure you keep yourself busy, take up a sport or something if you have to. Being alone with your thoughts will only make you feel worse.
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    similar situation, living with 5 others who all seem to either be in relationships within the house or never seem to be here. I have friends/boyfriend outside the house, but yknow, i like to actually have somebody to talk to properly in the house im living in (which doesnt seem to be the case)... luckily im moving out in a few months ;D
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    Don't worry, it's easter soon and then the summer term goes really fast. Are you moving to a new house in september? Just try and find anything you can to keep busy, even if it's something really stupid like baking a cake (I used to do this A LOT in the first year!). Best of luck for the future
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    I live with 3 guys too and it can be hell at times! The house is constantly disgusting and they have no respect for it and one housemate in particular is lazy, never cleans, never washes up, and generally just sits in the living room playing fifa. He can be really unpleasant to talk to as well. So I just get out as much as i can, I joined the gym, started hanging out with people on my course more and going out and socialising. There must be someone else you can hang out with a bit more! Societies or anything?
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    (Original post by marie1304)
    yeh i have lots but they cant really move in with me :/ so whatever i do with them i still have to come home to how it feels.
    so it's the sleeping alone that's bothering you?

    the only way is to get a boyfriend then really, not a particularly helpful answer but what else can you do.

    Playing 3rd wheel to that other couple every now and again isn't so bad for a bit of company in the evening though, unless they're still in that jumping each others bones 24/7 phase :dontknow:
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    Hey, I'm sorry to hear that you've had a bad time since being in Essex. I totally get how you feel. I didn't expect uni to be like this, I've grown up with a great set of friends, and now the people here seem to all be in their own groups, and not very welcoming, its been up and down with my flatmates too. The only thing that has kept me here is my boyfriend but even then we all need time to ourselves with our girls and I just have none here! If you want to chat just let me know =)
 
 
 
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