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    have such issues with guys masturbating and looking at porn?

    I say this as a girl myself, and I accept that its perfectly normal, yet there are always so many threads such as 'I caught my boyfriend masturbating' or 'what does it mean if hes looking at porn?'

    Where is the issue here?
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    If I were a girl and saw my boyfriend looking at porn, perhaps I would begin to feel a bit insecure about myself, not feel up to the job perhaps?
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    I'm fine with it (or would be if I had a boyfriend), it's just expected
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    I don't really get the big deal either!nothing wrong with looking really
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    (Original post by EmperorMustard)
    If I were a girl and saw my boyfriend looking at porn, perhaps I would begin to feel a bit insecure about myself, not feel up to the job perhaps?
    Well as I said, I dont necessarily understand other girls, but I think as long as not when he should be focusing on his girlfriend its fine. Its just really a fantasy, its not like hes sleeping with someone else...
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    I've never been in a relationship and would like to think I wouldnt care either, but if I were to imagine my hypothetical boyfriend looking at porn I do admit I see where those girls are coming from. I guess it would feel like they're not good enough, like he finds the girls in porn better looking or more enjoyable to watch.
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    They're egocentric...
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    http://images2.memegenerator.net/Ima...ame=Dinkleberg
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    Yes, they're egocentric.

    Personally I would be loath to let a girlfriend know I watched porn not to keep her blissfully ignorant but more because I can't help but imagine they'd find it a bit disgusting thinking of someone they liked ****ing like an animal in a cave.
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    I don't really mind, although the other week I gave him a surprise visit for a quicky on the way home, had stockings on and everything, and he took ages and ages and then confessed to me afterwards that he'd had a **** earlier in the day because he thought he wasn't getting any for ages, I was just like
    But I don't actually take it as an insult or anything, sometimes you've just got to do it.
    Porn- likewise.
    I guess it can seem to girls like they're not satisfying their boyfriends or something, but I know some girls see it as being 'unfaithful' which is just ridic!
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    (Original post by Jaded22)
    have such issues with guys masturbating and looking at porn?

    I say this as a girl myself, and I accept that its perfectly normal, yet there are always so many threads such as 'I caught my boyfriend masturbating' or 'what does it mean if hes looking at porn?'

    Where is the issue here?
    There is a vacancy open as my hands were incapacitated due to vigorous fapping the night before.

    :sexface:
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    I watch porn with my girlfriend, i love her =D
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    I wouldn't mind my boyfriend watching porn at all, when my ex told me he did I didn't mind because I am confident that I satisfied him enough. One time I offered to watch it during said but he said no....... lol.
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    (Original post by Jaded22)
    have such issues with guys masturbating and looking at porn?

    I say this as a girl myself, and I accept that its perfectly normal, yet there are always so many threads such as 'I caught my boyfriend masturbating' or 'what does it mean if hes looking at porn?'

    Where is the issue here?
    I guess that its because it might lead him to expect something more than what she is?
    I know studies prove that the more guys look at porn, the more they need to get a thrill.... its like riding horses, the best horse is one that you've re-sensitised to respond to you.... thats a bit random but what I mean is that just because its common doesnt mean its ideal.... if a girl is worried that her relationship isnt secure, it doesnt help to know her guy is steadily ensuring he gets his own kicks, so could become less responsive to her...
    Plus theres the ever feminist issue that the words/style of porn is very anti-female... stating things as 'teenage ***** sucks gigantic ****'.... its accepted, but the drilling of this as being ok to guys, even as fantasy, doesnt give women who are against depricating beliefs huge confidence!
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    I've never understood it either. Me and one of my exes used to link each other porn because we had the same taste in women.

    But seriously. A guy can't fap now? What the hell's he supposed to even do when his girlfriend's not around? Like..something..productive? :holmes:
 
 
 
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