girl keeps coming close to me

There's a girl who is renown for being a little "unusual" at college. She used to be ok, but i only talked to her in my english class. Anyway, since I've been back this year, she as totally changed. By this, I mean she picks arguments with absolutely anybody in her sight, she goes over to total strangers, wanting an arguiment and says the most controversial (a funny example: why do ugly people work harder and "looks are everything in every single job"). I've tried sticking up for her, as she does embarrass herself, and people just wind her up.
Anyway, now I've noticed that even though she hates who i sit with in english (she's really offensive to my friend, who is a devout christian), she still insists on sitting next to me.

Yesterday in english, me and her were the only ones in the classroom at the time, and she came and stood really close to me, steeped back becasue I felt uncomfortable, and then she started asking personal questions. The minutes dragged and I was dying of embarrassment and then to make things worse, she started feeling my belt!!! :redface:

When she's said things to offend me before, I've been blunt, because I really do not like her. However, how can i tell her I'm not comfortable???

Reply 1

Segat1

16

Just say I'm really not comfortable, you are invading my personal space"

She sounds like she's got a few "issues" can you talk to someone at your school

Reply 2

Danny the Geezer

21

She sounds like a helpless case.

Reply 3

*starry_eyed_*

OP

14

she's starting to freak me out. told my friend i sit with in english, but she says she don't know what to say, anythin she does say is ofending her back

Reply 4

beach surf babe

14

I think you should report her....a stern talking to might stop being such a pain!

Reply 5

*starry_eyed_*

OP

14

actually that desn't seem a bad idea...especially as she keeps picking arguments with my english teacher

Reply 6

lovelee-jublee

12

Get up really close to her and see how she likes it!

*On second thoughts, don't do that...she sounds like she might enjoy it!!! :p:

Reply 7

hippieglitter

19

Tell her that she is invading your personal space and you are not comfortable with how close she is trying to get, if she doesn't stop report her.

Reply 8

Latayah

11

segat1

Just say I'm really not comfortable, you are invading my personal space"

She sounds like she's got a few "issues" can you talk to someone at your school

funny you say that... thats the EXACT same thing i told someone...wen faced with a kinda similar problem minus all the offensive bits and stuf...and belt bit lol

Reply 9

Arminius

14

some people don't *get* the idea of personal space and like to talk, really close.

But from what you have said perhaps she's a lesbian. Its possible. But i think its more likely she is in fact just weird.

Reply 10

xemilyx

2

Zakatu

some people don't *get* the idea of personal space and like to talk, really close.

But from what you have said perhaps she's a lesbian. Its possible. But i think its more likely she is in fact just weird.

maybe actually. i agree with that lol. i think she might have issues with her sexualtiy. is it girls she picks on and is offensive to?

Reply 11

Mr @

1

say something like "i'd like to talk to you but i have more intersting and enjoyable things to do like watching paint dry while cutting my leg off with a butter knife" she should get the gist. Be really bold and say "wanna sit on my face?" then you should find her sexuality out.

Closet lesbian.

OP

xemilyx

maybe actually. i agree with that lol. i think she might have issues with her sexualtiy. is it girls she picks on and is offensive to?

she offends anyone within speaking distance!!!!

Reply 14

Navindu

That's the lynx effect that is.
Wear Brut for me instead. she won't come near you.

Reply 15

xemilyx

2

*starry_eyed_*

she offends anyone within speaking distance!!!!

hmmm ok lol then she must have issues. just be brutal and tell her you dont like her getting in your space, whilst saying it invade her personal space see how she likes it!

Reply 16

Trigger

18

Dupoynt

say something like "i'd like to talk to you but i have more intersting and enjoyable things to do like watching paint dry while cutting my leg off with a butter knife" she should get the gist. Be really bold and say "wanna sit on my face?" then you should find her sexuality out.

girl keeps coming close to me

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