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    One of my friends blabbed to someone else that I'm a virgin and now pritty much half of my College classes know that I'm virgin.

    I'm 18 and I've had a couple of boyfriends so it's not like I've not had the opportunity but i just didn't want to "do it".

    It's kind of getting me down that by now most people have lost their virginities and I feel as if I'm the "odd one out".

    What are other people's opinions, should I have gone for it...? :/
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    (Original post by MairiTheMack)
    One of my friends blabbed to someone else that I'm a virgin and now pritty much half of my College classes know that I'm virgin.

    I'm 18 and I've had a couple of boyfriends so it's not like I've not had the opportunity but i just didn't want to "do it".

    It's kind of getting me down that by now most people have lost their virginities and I feel as if I'm the "odd one out".

    What are other people's opinions, should I have gone for it...? :/
    Are you kidding? 90% of TSRians are virgins.

    Also, lots of people at uni are virgins, it's not a big deal, it only feels like it should be a big deal because everyone is talking about it. No one gives a crap either way, and if they do then they obviously have nothing else to fill their time with.
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    You're only 18, its not an issue, they're overreacting. I bet loads of people at your college are actually virgins but just won't admit it.
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    Twenty here.Nothing to worry about unless you're +25,just don't give much deal to it.
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    (Original post by MairiTheMack)
    One of my friends blabbed to someone else that I'm a virgin and now pritty much half of my College classes know that I'm virgin.

    I'm 18 and I've had a couple of boyfriends so it's not like I've not had the opportunity but i just didn't want to "do it".

    It's kind of getting me down that by now most people have lost their virginities and I feel as if I'm the "odd one out".

    What are other people's opinions, should I have gone for it...? :/
    Is your only reason that you "just didn't want to 'do it'"? Just wondering.

    Also, you shouldn't let other people pressure you into things you are unaccustomed or uncomfortable with. I'm sure you will have the opportunity again anyway. Be comfortable with who you are. It's not shameful to still be a virgin. I'm sure at least some of those pressuring you are making fun of you just because they regret losing theirs.
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    I was 18 when I popped, it's hard uncommon.

    If people laugh then it really does reflect worse on them..
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    lose it to a tampon then
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    (Original post by mjeezy)
    Is your only reason that you "just didn't want to 'do it'"? Just wondering.
    Yeah, I just didn't want to..
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    It's not a big deal. It's just people being silly. What is likely is that a few people are being pathetic, and other people are joining in because they don't want people to suspect that they are virgins.

    You're only 18 as well! Still young!
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    (Original post by MairiTheMack)
    One of my friends blabbed to someone else that I'm a virgin and now pritty much half of my College classes know that I'm virgin.

    I'm 18 and I've had a couple of boyfriends so it's not like I've not had the opportunity but i just didn't want to "do it".

    It's kind of getting me down that by now most people have lost their virginities and I feel as if I'm the "odd one out".

    What are other people's opinions, should I have gone for it...? :/
    Don't feel pressured into doing something you're not ready to do. It just shows the level of immaturity of the people that you go to college with. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone is different.
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    you're 18
    you've got all the time in the world
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    Better than shagging the first person who takes an interest. Good for you.
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    The Cherry goes past it's sell by date when you hit 19
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    (Original post by MairiTheMack)
    One of my friends blabbed to someone else that I'm a virgin and now pritty much half of my College classes know that I'm virgin.

    I'm 18 and I've had a couple of boyfriends so it's not like I've not had the opportunity but i just didn't want to "do it".

    It's kind of getting me down that by now most people have lost their virginities and I feel as if I'm the "odd one out".

    What are other people's opinions, should I have gone for it...? :/
    It just goes to show how much mature you are than them. All they care about is going out on nights and having drunken one night stands. I'm 18, a virgin and does it look like I'm bothered whether you're a virgin or not? Does it look like I care about what other people think if I'm a virgin or not? No way. You're yourself, don't let anybody take that away from you!

    You're a girl with moral and standards. It's pretty difficult to find a girl like that and plus, you sound decent. Don't feel down, because if you do, it'll make you desperate and you'll put yourself out there just to prove a point. Don't do it. You're not the odd one out at all.
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    I can help you with that my dear
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    **** peer pressure, theres nothing wrong with waiting and having standards. I waited for a girl who meant something to me and i'm glad i did. Like other people are saying, if someone is constantly taking the piss they're probably trying to deflect attention from themselves. I certainly remember a few guys like that.

    I'd much prefer an inexperienced girl to the village bike, most guys would.
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    (Original post by MairiTheMack)
    One of my friends blabbed to someone else that I'm a virgin and now pritty much half of my College classes know that I'm virgin.

    I'm 18 and I've had a couple of boyfriends so it's not like I've not had the opportunity but i just didn't want to "do it".

    It's kind of getting me down that by now most people have lost their virginities and I feel as if I'm the "odd one out".

    What are other people's opinions, should I have gone for it...? :/
    You're 18, in the last year of sixth form, and thus going to university?

    **** these people, you'll never see them again.

    Why do the opinions of these people even matter to you?
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    Twenty here.Nothing to worry about unless you're +25,just don't give much deal to it.
    Oh, why?
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    A lot of people get to 18 and haven't had sex. It's not a big deal and there's no shame in it.
    Wouldn't you rather be a virgin than 13 and pregnant?
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    I go through this pretty much everyday. I actually dont care so OP I suggest you do the same.

    Someone told me of a research that stated that 75% of teenagers regret losing their virginity; do you actually want to be included in this? Take decisions that YOU are comfortable with.
 
 
 
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