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Afraid of showing interest in a girl in case other guys get jealous watch

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    is it strange that i feel this way? because guys seem to outnumber girls by 2:1 or more in life (or so it would seem this way for people aged 18 - 22), every girl has a number of guy friends and possibly several who are after her. so if i show feelings for a girl (one who hasnt got a boyfriend of course), i am worried of other guys being jealous and possibly hating me/starting a fight with me.

    certainly when i have showed interest in a girl around my friends, they act all weird and then ***** about me to the girl (i have overheard them do this on occasions and sometimes the girl has asked 'so and so from your friends said this, is it true?'.

    even in clubs, when i am merely walking to the toilet/too the bar minding my own business, guys sometimes push past me and i had one who even tried to start a fight with me when i did nothing!

    is it weird to fear this?
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    (Original post by Mr. Orange)
    wow you'll succeed in the gene pool
    apart from this troll, any other replies?
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    i doubt you'll succeed in the gene pool
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    who cares if the other guys get jealous?
    if you get the girl then they can be jealous all they like but it's you who has caught her eye.
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    wow you'll succeed in the gene pool.

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    (Original post by xStaceyy)
    who cares if the other guys get jealous?
    if you get the girl then they can be jealous all they like but it's you who has caught her eye.
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    wow you'll succeed in the gene pool.

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    thanks for the only serious answer so far! i cant help that i dont want to make a guy jealous. how can i get over the fear?
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    Ironically, most of the posters in this thread won't succeed in the gene pool. Probably for the best.

    OP, if you're not a troll, you're very naive.
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    (Original post by Rant)
    Ironically, most of the posters in this thread won't succeed in the gene pool. Probably for the best.

    OP, if you're not a troll, you're very naive.
    i'm not a troll, promise. how am i naive? are you sure you used the right word?
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    lol at this thread TSR is such a helpful place at times
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    (Original post by robotwars)
    i'm not a troll, promise. how am i naive? are you sure you used the right word?
    wow you'll succeed in the gene pool
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    Oh man, you have been throughly TSR'd.

    But srsly, you need to man up, you aren't going to get laid if you're afraid of other guys getting jealous :facepalm:
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    They're talking about you behind your back because you're a tool
 
 
 
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