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    I have a girlfriend and she doesn't live near me, so it costs money and time to come visit. It's always her that does it because I don't have the money as all my money has to be spent on sup air , I've always done it and it's expensive. We don't go out much because I'm skint, and I'll admit when she comes to mine I go on the computer for a long time selling stuff.

    She keeps nagging me and having a go at me, treating me like **** basically, because I don't "make an effort", she thinks that if she's the only one making effort. She complains about me going on the computer when she's there, and that I never visit her and that I have no money.

    I told her that her going on at me is making me re-think the relationship, I told her it might be easier without it. This made her cry, and then she cried later when I kept getting annoyed at her. She then got mad at me because I started talking about porn.

    Am I really a bad boyfriend?
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    lol This sounds strangely familiar
    I wonder where I heard this before?
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    (Original post by thru sun and rain)
    lol This sounds strangely familiar
    I wonder where I heard this before?
    haha i have to agree there
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    yes.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have a girlfriend and she doesn't live near me, so it costs money and time to come visit. It's always her that does it because I don't have the money as all my money has to be spent on sup air , I've always done it and it's expensive. We don't go out much because I'm skint, and I'll admit when she comes to mine I go on the computer for a long time selling stuff.

    She keeps nagging me and having a go at me, treating me like **** basically, because I don't "make an effort", she thinks that if she's the only one making effort. She complains about me going on the computer when she's there, and that I never visit her and that I have no money.

    I told her that her going on at me is making me re-think the relationship, I told her it might be easier without it. This made her cry, and then she cried later when I kept getting annoyed at her. She then got mad at me because I started talking about porn.

    Am I really a bad boyfriend?
    yeah, you are
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    whats 'sup air'? :holmes:
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    I feel like I've heard this exactly before but from the girlfirend's perspective....
    How odd :curious:
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    Your girlfriend will think so yes but its only because you can't do things with her since you have no money to spend and do stuff. I'd suggest finding some part-time work first and save up so you can then do some nice things with her.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I told her that her going on at me is making me re-think the relationship, I told her it might be easier without it. This made her cry, and then she cried later when I kept getting annoyed at her. She then got mad at me because I started talking about porn.

    Am I really a bad boyfriend?
    Summary: You tell her that her telling you how she feels (and explaining the relationship from her perspective) makes you want to dump her... then you talk about porn.

    Do you need to ask?

    She's nagging you cus she feels unappreciated and obvs wants it to work otherwise she would have walked away by now.
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    This feels like an episode of Jeremy Kyle.


    http://www.shoutingatco.ws/blog/wp-c...-assange21.jpg


    :sexface:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have a girlfriend and she doesn't live near me, so it costs money and time to come visit. It's always her that does it because I don't have the money as all my money has to be spent on sup air , I've always done it and it's expensive. We don't go out much because I'm skint, and I'll admit when she comes to mine I go on the computer for a long time selling stuff.

    She keeps nagging me and having a go at me, treating me like **** basically, because I don't "make an effort", she thinks that if she's the only one making effort. She complains about me going on the computer when she's there, and that I never visit her and that I have no money.

    I told her that her going on at me is making me re-think the relationship, I told her it might be easier without it. This made her cry, and then she cried later when I kept getting annoyed at her. She then got mad at me because I started talking about porn.

    Am I really a bad boyfriend?
    I googled Sup Air. You genuinely find buying and selling inflatable paintball shelters more important and interesting than going out for cinema and pizza with a nice young lady? I think that's your question answered, OP. You are clearly not emotionally developed enough to handle a relationship, I think you should concentrate on your studies for a few years. And get a REAL hobby in the meantime.
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    Yes, you idiot.
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    Yes you are a bad bf. Ok about all the money problems wateva. But she makes the effort to come see you.... and you sit on a computer. No wonder she gets upset you cant want to be with her at all if you did you would make a tiny bit of effort. You need to think about the point of been together if yourjust gunna hurt the girl all the time.
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    Troll is rumbleddddddddddddddddd.
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    trolly
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    would be pretty funny if it was real though :p:
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    the porn bit would annoy most girls tbh

    not taking sides ofcourse i'm neutral
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    There was a thread something along the lines of "am I a bad girlfriend" not long ago. She visited the guy as he had no money and she kept nagging him because he went out with his mates, etc. I call troll.
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    troll. we read your 'girlfriends' thread.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have a girlfriend and she doesn't live near me, so it costs money and time to come visit. It's always her that does it because I don't have the money as all my money has to be spent on sup air , I've always done it and it's expensive. We don't go out much because I'm skint, and I'll admit when she comes to mine I go on the computer for a long time selling stuff.

    She keeps nagging me and having a go at me, treating me like **** basically, because I don't "make an effort", she thinks that if she's the only one making effort. She complains about me going on the computer when she's there, and that I never visit her and that I have no money.

    I told her that her going on at me is making me re-think the relationship, I told her it might be easier without it. This made her cry, and then she cried later when I kept getting annoyed at her. She then got mad at me because I started talking about porn.

    Am I really a bad boyfriend?
    She's made the effort and spent the money on coming to see you, so why go on the PC when she's there? I can see her point on that one tbh. Take her out somewhere instead, it doesn't have to cost anything - a nice walk for example. It's not hard lol.
 
 
 
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