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    I started going out with my boyfriend a few months ago and I always noticed that when I snogged him or touched him his **** would not stand.I became very upset with him and he finally told me he thinks there might be something wrong with him down there and it's a very embarresing subject.I felt upset a couple of times about this since he doesn't seem to have low sex drive but can't seem to stand up when he's with me. Don't get we wrong when I tried to **** him it did stand up and he has spoken to me about him ****ing over porn.

    I'm not convinced though , does having an erectile dysfuction mean you have a low sex drive too? Maybe it's just me that doesn't turn him on, because he gets really horny by the way he touches me and kisses me but don't get a boner. ( he has but only sometimes)

    He has no serious health problems that i know of but was taking some tablets with an erectile dysfuction side effect. He hasn't been taking these tablets for weeks now unless it has scarred him for life.

    Pls advise...

    Yes, you can have a high sex drive and ED. ED has little to do with being turned out, it's mostly an issue with stress, anxiety, fear, or other emotions. However it's not really ED if it works when you try to have sex, but doesn't when kissing and touching you. As long as you can get him hard when you want to use it, why does it matter?
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