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    I know this is a bit pathetic but it's bugging me.

    My boyfriends going away for a week at the weekend with his uni mates on a society trip. There's about a 70:30 girl/boy ratio.

    I trust him. He'd never cheat. But I know the girls, they're touchy feely, the kind who grind on their boy friends and hold hands with them and think nothing of it. They're also really gorgeous.

    They're going on pub crawls, clubs (most of which apparently have topless dancers in) and there's talk of strip clubs. It's making me feel sick. I don't want to say anything but I'm genuinely feeling sick with jealousy and worry at the thought.

    Please help before I explode and say something to my boyfriend
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    Just talk to him.
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    How about talking to him?
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    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/cuckoldry_in_fish

    ^ Hope this helps.
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    They hold hands with their boyfriends? OMG sluts.

    You say you trust him, but you're getting jealous. Not really trust then, is it? Come on OP, the best way to deal with this is talking to your boyfriend. Not much you can do about it. You can't stop him going.

    TALK TO HIM.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I trust him. He'd never cheat.
    Just suck it up I'm afraid. If you really trust him, why are you questioning whether or not he'll cheat on you in the next sentence?

    Plus strip clubs or topless bars mean nothing, its just like watching porn.
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    (Original post by ForensicShoe)
    Just talk to him.
    And say what though? There's nothing he can say really. He can't not go to those places when all his friends are, not dance with his friends, not join in conversations about how hot the girls are It's just me being jealous.
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    There is a massive difference between telling him you don't trust him and just addressing your concern.
    Talk to him about it, I'm sure he will understand because I doubt he would feel nothing if it was you going away with all the gorgeous guys to strip clubs etc.
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    don't think you've anything to worry about
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    There's nothing you can do except try to trust him, you can't stop him. Ask him to keep in touch with you and see how things play out. He's with you not them and i'm sure he'll remember that. My boyfriends going away for three weeks this easter hol and I trust him completely, I know he's not that type of person.

    The fact is if anything happens then he's not worth your worry anyway.

    Pm me if you like, i'll be alone soon too
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    Tell him if he even thinks about cheating on you, you'll tie his balls up and cut them off with a butchers knife.
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    Make a thread about it on TSR.
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    (Original post by Linzikins)
    There's nothing you can do except try to trust him, you can't stop him. Ask him to keep in touch with you and see how things play out. He's with you not them and i'm sure he'll remember that. My boyfriends going away for three weeks this easter hol and I trust him completely, I know he's not that type of person.

    The fact is if anything happens then he's not worth your worry anyway.

    Pm me if you like, i'll be alone soon too
    Who's the hot girl in your sig? :hubba:
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    if he really wants to cheat on you, he could do it any time? doenst have to be on that very trip
    since he has never done it before...well thats a good sign isnt it?^^
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    (Original post by Apex9)
    Who's the hot girl in your sig? :hubba:

    Hahaha Fit aint he.
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    I think you should get back at him by cheating yourself. I'm free 9-11. Then you gotta gtfo.
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    you might want to consider working in one of those strip clubs, the 30 will leave the 70 :P
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    Christ, get a grip and stop being so insecure. That's the kind of thing that WILL make him cheat.
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    (Original post by failingatm)
    They hold hands with their boyfriends? OMG sluts.

    You say you trust him, but you're getting jealous. Not really trust then, is it? Come on OP, the best way to deal with this is talking to your boyfriend. Not much you can do about it. You can't stop him going.

    TALK TO HIM.
    I think she meant boy friends, not boyfriends.
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    (Original post by Linzikins)
    Hahaha Fit aint he.
    "He" is a strong word
 
 
 
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