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    This question is mainly for guys but girls can answer too.

    My boyfriend never really looks at me (as in my face). He either shuts his eyes or mainly looks down there at, well there's no other way for me to phrase it....at his penis thrusting into me. I asked him why he looks there and he said "because it's hot".

    I don't know if this is normal, that this is EVERY time we have sex....I don't really like the term "making love", but it doesn't feel like he is being intimate with me, seeing as he doesn't look at me, doesn't kiss me, doesn't say anything loving at all. All he says is stuff you'd expect to hear in a porn vid.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend never really looks at me (as in my face). He either shuts his eyes or mainly looks down there at, well there's no other way for me to phrase it....at his penis thrusting into me. I asked him why he looks there and he said "because it's hot".
    :yep:

    There is a time and a place for "making love" and being all intimate and lovey dovey in bed, but when it's your average afternoon nothing-else-to-do shag, then :yep: :sexface:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This question is mainly for guys but girls can answer too.

    My boyfriend never really looks at me (as in my face). He either shuts his eyes or mainly looks down there at, well there's no other way for me to phrase it....at his penis thrusting into me. I asked him why he looks there and he said "because it's hot".

    I don't know if this is normal, that this is EVERY time we have sex....I don't really like the term "making love", but it doesn't feel like he is being intimate with me, seeing as he doesn't look at me, doesn't kiss me, doesn't say anything loving at all. All he says is stuff you'd expect to hear in a porn vid.
    Could be your problem. If hes relatively new to the game then it may be the only thing he can relate to. Some guys are just naturally like this though, so it may just be his natural response.
    Also, try saying loving things to him first or even say to him before hand.
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    Making love and shagging are different things. You're currently shagging, so he's focused on getting you both off and enjoying the physical act. If you want to make love, with deep romantic stares and kisses, then tell him so.
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    Most guys do a Patrick Bateman and look in the mirror or the camera. Nothing like flexing those biceps during sex...
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    that's perfectly normal.
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    (Original post by It could be lupus)
    Most guys do a Patrick Bateman and look in the mirror or the camera. Nothing like flexing those biceps during sex...
    One of the greatest scenes in film tbh
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    (Original post by mandingo666)
    One of the greatest scenes in film tbh
    Pos rep. Completely agree.
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    The majority of the time my eyes are shut! But when I do open them I look at him, sometimes he's looking at the action, sometimes he's looking at my face, and sometimes he's watching himself play with my boobies (oh-er!). His eyes are always open though.
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    My monitor.
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    I keep my eyes on the door to the basement, incase the police burst in.
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    My boyfriend usually looks at my face, and if I look back he smiles

    Otherwise he'll look at the action. Or quite often we're pressed so close together his face is over my shoulder, and presumably rammed into the pillow. Lol, never realised that!
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    Boris's hair.
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    I love eye contact during sex. It really turns me on for some reason.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This question is mainly for guys but girls can answer too.

    My boyfriend never really looks at me (as in my face). He mainly looks down there at, well there's no other way for me to phrase it....at his penis thrusting into me. I asked him why he looks there and he said "because it's hot".
    Men like watching their **** penetrate things. *shrug*
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    (Original post by .Heather.)
    I love eye contact during sex. It really turns me on for some reason.
    It's true it really does, and I don't even think it's in a lovey dovey way
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    I look into the back of my head.
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    Depends on the position, if she's on top I'll probs be watching her boobs bounce/her riding me. If I'm on top I'll either be looking at her face or my head will be over her shoulder. I find the moaning girls make a bigger turn on then the visual aspect anyway.
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    I never know what to look at really - i feel awkward looking straight at his face. So its either eyes shut and head back, head buried in pillow/his shoulder or looking at his body/the 'action'.

    I feel like if I'm looking straight at his face I should be saying something - but I don't know what to say :/
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    I don't really see the big deal about eye contact anyway, I find it much more passionate and intimate to just press up against their necks or lips with my mouth. Although I love watching the faces they make.
 
 
 
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