Asking once or twice - not an issue. But from what OP said, it seems they have done this many times before:(Original post by imperial maniac)
I'm sorry, but that's no excuse, it's not like he's being controlling, he's just asking where his girlfriend is going on a night out.After a while, that kind of questioning whenever you go out becomes intrusive and annoying.So i did have some insecurity/paranoia issues in the past in which i'd ask her where she is going, who she is seeing etc etc when she goes out with friends.
(However, what your ex did was a bit OTT...)
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