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    I have always had Bi tendancies so don't try to pull the "you were always just gay" thing.

    Anyway during high school I dated several girls but no guys (because I was keeping it a secret as I thought it was wrong); I came out of all of these relationships with nothing good to say about the girls I dated.
    They all seemed really nice at first, they were funny and pretty etc; but after we started going out they changed into a completely different person like all the stuff that I found attractive about their personalities was just an act. They were manipulative, back stabbing, petty, self centred, and just genrally a massive Bi*ch.

    It seemed to me that the minute we started going out it became all about them. So eventually I decided that if this was what was going to happen every time I should just stop caring what other people will think and try a relationship with a guy.

    So now a comparison between similar situations with a teenage boyfriend and a teenage girlfriend...

    I forgot the 6 month anniversary with my 2nd girlfriend, she told me (screamed it) and I said I was really sorry and that I had been distracted with exam revision, she said she didn't care if I was sorry and stormed off, after 2 days of not talking Im told by a friend she slept with some random guy at one of her friends parties, she didn't even actually end our relationship she just stormed off.

    I forgot the birthday of my first boyfriend (we had only been going out a few weeks and I didn't really know but I should have asked), anyway he told me (in an indoor voice) and I said I was really sorry and promised I would buy him a really great present etc, his answer was "its okay" massive improvement on screaming.

    I think the title of this thread is a bit dramatic and I know not all girls are like the ones I dated; but alot of them are; and now every time I see a girl I find attractive, almost instantly I think "she looks great but shes probably a self centred bi*ch.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have always had Bi tendancies so don't try to pull the "you were always just gay" thing.

    Anyway during high school I dated several girls but no guys (because I was keeping it a secret as I thought it was wrong); I came out of all of these relationships with nothing good to say about the girls I dated.
    They all seemed really nice at first, they were funny and pretty etc; but after we started going out they changed into a completely different person like all the stuff that I found attractive about their personalities was just an act. They were manipulative, back stabbing, petty, self centred, and just genrally a massive Bi*ch.

    It seemed to me that the minute we started going out it became all about them. So eventually I decided that if this was what was going to happen every time I should just stop caring what other people will think and try a relationship with a guy.

    So now a comparison between similar situations with a teenage boyfriend and a teenage girlfriend...

    I forgot the 6 month anniversary with my 2nd girlfriend, she told me (screamed it) and I said I was really sorry and that I had been distracted with exam revision, she said she didn't care if I was sorry and stormed off, after 2 days of not talking Im told by a friend she slept with some random guy at one of her friends parties, she didn't even actually end our relationship she just stormed off.

    I forgot the birthday of my first boyfriend (we had only been going out a few weeks and I didn't really know but I should have asked), anyway he told me (in an indoor voice) and I said I was really sorry and promised I would buy him a really great present etc, his answer was "its okay" massive improvement on screaming.

    I think the title of this thread is a bit dramatic and I know not all girls are like the ones I dated; but alot of them are; and now every time I see a girl I find attractive, almost instantly I think "she looks great but shes probably a self centred bi*ch.
    That's not all girls, that's immature girls. Seriously, who gives a damn about a 6 month anniversary?! :lolwut: When it was my one year anniversary with my ex we just had a normal day...cheesy overly sentimental crap is not my thing at all. If you love someone you show them through your actions, not buying clichéd little gifts on certain days.

    Unfortunately the girls you dated sound like idiots. Honestly we're not all like that. I don't always get on with girls because a lot of them are like that, and I don't like it. They always try to belittle eachother and manipulate the situation, and to me it's pathetic. Not to say all girls though, I have some great girl besties who are wonderful.

    I guess you're still bi but you prefer guys to girls? That's pretty usual with bi people, they often favour one gender over the other.
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    IMHO there are good and bad girls and guys, it just depends on who you go for and what your "type" is. Plenty of girls and guys will complain aboput the opposite sex and relationships with them, but that doesnt mean that it applies to everyone who is in that particular gender.
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    I am also gay. Being gay to me involves walks along the beach and listening to elton john. Yes these things make me happy, which is the definition of gay.
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    I was going to write a reply to this thread and then realised there was nothing to say about it. I just wasted 3 minutes of my day.
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    I'm bi and it's so much easier being with guys. I think the lack of a menstrual cycle has something to do with it.
    Girl's are more jealous when you have girls who are friends and because you're texting another girl you must be cheating. Boys are more chilled. It's more like "You have friends, I have friends, let's just get on with it" rather than "YOU CHEATING SCUMBAG TEXTING SOMEONE WITH A VAGINA OTHER THAN ME"
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    Based on your logic, I should become a lesbian. To be fair its looking like an increasingly attractive prospect.
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    (Original post by Callum)
    I'm bi and it's so much easier being with guys. I think the lack of a menstrual cycle has something to do with it.
    Girl's are more jealous when you have girls who are friends and because you're texting another girl you must be cheating. Boys are more chilled. It's more like "You have friends, I have friends, let's just get on with it" rather than "YOU CHEATING SCUMBAG TEXTING SOMEONE WITH A VAGINA OTHER THAN ME"
    Urgh I hate girls that do this. We aren't all manipulative posessive *****es, honest! One of the reasons I can barely stand some women lol, they get jealous of absolutely anything. You have something nice, they start going mad about it. You have a nice boyfriend, they ***** about it. Etc etc. And then they go and give us all a bad name!
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    It sounds like you just had the misfortune to go out with some horrible girls. Girls like that are in the minority though, so I don't think saying it's all our fault is particularly fair.
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    I am exactly in the same situation....:-D Great post lol
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    (Original post by .Ali.)
    Urgh I hate girls that do this. We aren't all manipulative posessive *****es, honest! One of the reasons I can barely stand some women lol, they get jealous of absolutely anything. You have something nice, they start going mad about it. You have a nice boyfriend, they ***** about it. Etc etc. And then they go and give us all a bad name!
    TRUE THAT! pretty sure the only reason i only go out with guys is because 3 girls who i've gone out with have ended our relationship by breaking my **** because they think i've had someone on the side, because they read my texts that have "one too many x's on them" silly cows.
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    Sounds like you've been unlucky with the girls you've dated and fallen on your feet with this guy you've found. It works the other way round too.
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    (Original post by Callum)
    TRUE THAT! pretty sure the only reason i only go out with guys is because 3 girls who i've gone out with have ended our relationship by breaking my **** because they think i've had someone on the side, because they read my texts that have "one too many x's on them" silly cows.
    People like that annoy me. I mean sure everyone can have off days, but you keep it to yourself and use logic and reason! You don't blow up at someone for sending an extra x on them. I mean I don't even count the amount of xs I do, so :lolwut: I mean I have male friends so he can have female friends, it makes perfect sense to me. I'm not getting with all my male friends so I'd have no reason to assume he would be with his female ones. I just don't understand some girls at all.
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    They haven't made you gay, you just said "everytime I see a girl I find attractive...". You're still bi you numpty
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    also, plenty of manipulative, deceitful and *****y guys out there too.
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    (Original post by November 11)
    also, plenty of manipulative, deceitful and *****y guys out there too.
    Absolutely. There's one right here

    I hate myself.
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    Please don't generalize about all men or all women based on a few examples. Isn't that the advantage of being bi? You can fall in love with the *person* rather than hir genitalia?
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    (Original post by Potiron)
    I hate myself.
    Hey, you should be proud that you impose your will onto those who are comparatively incompetent. That's how I look at it anyway. ;D
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    (Original post by November 11)
    Hey, you should be proud that you impose your will onto those who are comparatively incompetent. That's how I look at it anyway. ;D
    True. With these skills I shall take over the world :fuhrer:


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