So I have known a boy for about nine months, but only been really speaking to him for recently for a few weeks. When I first met him, a friend tried to set us up which was really awkward and I just hated it! Then he got a gf , but a couple of months ago they broke up. He started liking all my stuff on facebook, so I decided to start chatting.
He told my close guy friend that he liked me and wanted to have sex as they are friends. So he invited me to a party and we got very drunk. he found out i wasnt a virgin , which he thought i was! ended up kissing and a bit more and he was like i wanna be friends with benefits , but i didnt know what to do as i lost my virginty that way and the boy just ****ed me over! :/ but i think im going to go for it? he's not a total idiot, like i know i can trust him. It's just that everything is happening now to have a boyfriend: college, work, driving , uni stuff and going on holiday with the girls.
friends with benefits?
friends with benefits??? watch
- Thread Starter
- 24-03-2011 22:11
- 25-03-2011 13:19
Well you know it is only friends with benefits right? Like, a relationship probably won't come from this, so you might feel like how you felt before. If you find it difficult to keep sex and emotions separate then it's probably not a good idea.
- PS Helper
- 25-03-2011 15:06
Friends with benefits .... I doubt relationship will come from that to be honest. If you want to go for it and hope it will lead to a relationship then don't do it because it most likely wont. But if you want to just have sex and just have fun occasionnally then , probably yeah.. =.=
I wouldn't do it, personally. The only guy who I will have sex with needs to be the one that are in a relationship with me, for a period of time.
- 25-03-2011 17:56
They do occasionally result in a LTR but that is not the intent.
They may cause problems for females that have difficulties in separating sex from an emotional attachment. Some women find that having two or more FWB prevents the emotional attachment issues.
- 25-03-2011 18:01
Go for it!!!!!!!!!
- 25-03-2011 18:14
I got from this thread that people liking your stuff on facebook means you're in there. Lulwut