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    (Original post by Eveiebaby)
    If you go down on her like a good man, not only is it pretty nice for her, she'll be nice and wet on the outside too. Whatever you do though, DO NOT use oily/greasy lubricants as they weaken the condoms and they'll split.

    If you don't go down on your lady (out of male bravado like I know some guys of certain groups do)then it's best to get some shop bought lube for the outside or spit. Needs to be water based, whatever you use. And be carefulo you don't use something that might sting.

    EDIT: If it is her first time and she specified to bring lube, maybe you should just bite the bullet and get some lube. For a first time it can be really painful (for some, not all)and you will be showing that you are being considerate by heeding her needs. Simply not bothering to go out and get some is a bit of a lazy/bad attitude and not sensitive to what she needs to stop it being painful.
    Finally what I've been waiting for.. thanks

    Can close the thread now
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    Finally what I've been waiting for.. thanks

    Can close the thread now
    Google it then next time you ****tard.
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    Its a thing called foreplay. Use it. If enough men could do this, then KY would go outta business.
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    (Original post by sherlllll)
    Google it then next time you ****tard.
    What are you going to do if I don't?
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    (Original post by Lazaroo)
    Its a thing called foreplay. Use it. If enough men could do this, then KY would go outta business.
    I've only gone down once, and don't play to again any time soon. However I finger all the time...but not going down for a while
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    What are you going to do if I don't?
    I'm going to bang you with no lube...

    sorry for scaring the crap out of you .
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    It's her first time, she suggested lube...

    But I don't have any lol
    MASSIVE LOL. It's clearly your first time, hun.

    'I need it for the outside rim of the vagina' hahahahahahahahahhahahahah
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    Reallllyyyyyy..........
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    I've only gone down once, and don't play to again any time soon. However I finger all the time...but not going down for a while
    Just because you're doing something, doesn't mean its pressing her buttons though. All sounds a bit 16yr old and dull to me I'm afraid
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    (Original post by wtfCharlie)
    THIS.

    My first time was lube-less and didn't hurt at all, because I was ready :L
    :zomg: charlie no longer a virgin?!
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    (Original post by I'm Lillie)
    MASSIVE LOL. It's clearly your first time, hun.

    'I need it for the outside rim of the vagina' hahahahahahahahahhahahahah
    Not my first no, except all the sex I had was with only two different girls, so I wouldn't say I'm that experience although I've had sex a lot, just with the same people. And tbh I'm a bit nervous seeing as she's a GF and not just a girl to have sex with
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    (Original post by Lazaroo)
    Just because you're doing something, doesn't mean its pressing her buttons though. All sounds a bit 16yr old and dull to me I'm afraid
    Well it was, I love how everyone's commenting like they watch me in the bedroom with girls, creep :/
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    Well it was, I love how everyone's commenting like they watch me in the bedroom with girls, creep :/
    No its just that if you were pushing all the right buttons, you wouldn't need lube. Ever. You said you're not very experienced, so take it from people that are dude.
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    (Original post by Lazaroo)
    No its just that if you were pushing all the right buttons, you wouldn't need lube. Ever. You said you're not very experienced, so take it from people that are dude.
    Wow. Go back to page 1... My girl wants the lube NOT me, learn to read seriously.
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    Me and my boyfriend have never used lube and it's never been a problem.

    Foreplay is the answer, and all condoms we use are slightly lubricated on the outside anyway so it really shouldn't be an issue.

    You asked for an alternative, so why are you getting annoyed at people suggesting just using the natural lubricant that girls produce anyway?
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    Wow. Go back to page 1... My girl wants the lube NOT me, learn to read seriously.
    Well yeah, that's the whole point.... She needs lube because you're not making her wet enough. A valid point that many are making throughout this thread. Maybe instead of being on the internet asking us, you should be getting to know your gf better... I meant "you" as in you as a couple, which is what sex is about, not just you as an individual.
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    (Original post by Lazaroo)
    Well yeah, that's the whole point.... She needs lube because you're not making her wet enough. A valid point that many are making throughout this thread. Maybe instead of being on the internet asking us, you should be getting to know your gf better...
    You're not understanding, we have never had sex before. I've got her wet from foreplay before, however she wants lube... which has lead to me making this thread.
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    Just get her wet inside, then finger her and bring some to the outside, simples.
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    16 year old whores are so funny

    If this wasn't sex related he would have used Google. It's only a click away.

    I love corn flakes. I might go out and buy some.
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    TBH I just have sex, don't give a crap about the anatomy of the vagina?

    Were still straying, I didn't ask about getting girls wet, substitute for lube that's not going to cause damaged to the condom other than spit?
    Pleased I'm not your girlfriend.
 
 
 
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