Adultery is cheating whilst in marriage. Therefore your wrong(Original post by Fight-or-Flight)
"everything that is harmful is prohibited". of course it is, just like stoning right? Stoning women for adultery doesn't do any harm.
So if men cant date and neither can women, how do they choose their future partners? How does it protect people?
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- 26-03-2011 19:55
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- 26-03-2011 20:02
(Original post by imperial maniac)
- 26-03-2011 20:09
I don't understand this, at all.
A woman only gets treated as a sex object, if she wants to be treated as a sex object, some girls choose to sleep around, some don't, just like guys. How are women any more like sex objects than men are?
Oh, and stfu with that mashallah bull****, it's like if I randomly put ancient English into the middle of sentences.
- 26-03-2011 20:21
(Original post by JongKey)
- 26-03-2011 20:29
Not really they only suggest and you choose who you actually want to get to know (well in my family anyway). I guess yeah you could say it is similar to dating but the main difference is that it's not just for a one time fling - it's for a long lasting relationship (marriage) and you don't do anything like kissing and stuff - that's all for after marriage.
My cousin got engaged and they new each other for a bit before but weren't too close and then after the engagement they got to know each other for a year (as in closer and more alone time) and then got married and they practically love each other now haha.
Relationship-wise, I absolutely can't imagine anything worse than standing there getting married to someone who you don't completely love.
- 27-03-2011 13:45
(Original post by abc101)
- 31-03-2011 18:04
How utterly soul-destroying to get married to someone you don't love. I really can't bear this 'love grows after marriage' crap - I can't imagine anyone who TRULY dreams of marrying someone that they get along ok with and might end up loving some point down the line. You should marry someone because you can't bear to be apart from them, not because you might start to love them after a few years.
Relationship-wise, I absolutely can't imagine anything worse than standing there getting married to someone who you don't completely love.Last edited by JongKey; 31-03-2011 at 18:04. Reason: typo