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    So I've started dating a guy that I've known on and off for about 3 years. It's going really well, I feel really comfortable around him and we can talk really well. However, last night he came over and ended up staying the night and suddenly he seemed to flip and become incredibly nervous... nothing went further than foreplay as imo it's still fairly earlyin our relationship but he seemed really nervous about even touching me... I kind of fear that if I try and talk to him about it he may become even more nervous/embarrassed....

    Have any girls been in a similar position? What did you do? Guys- any advice?
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    Either a virgin or has a small penis.

    If you wanna build his confidence then take actings classes and learn to fake it, make it believable.
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    Tell him to watch more porn. Homo.
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    Make sure you laugh at his penis. No matter what it looks like.
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    Performance anxiety - maybe you need to show a bit of enthusiasm and take the lead a bit?
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    Just make sure he feels really at ease and relaxed. Maybe he's just a bit nervous as he's known you for ages, or just really liked you or whatever. Or he's a bit inexperienced.

    I wouldn't say anything just yet, just see how it goes, make sure its obvious you're relaxed and enjoying what he does. Saying something too soon might make him feel even worse...
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    Compare his penis size to really small things casually in conversation lots.
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    Just assure him everything cool and that you can take your time.

    As for building his confidence tell him to sit back and relax as you slowly take control
 
 
 
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