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    Well I'm a guy (18) and since a few years I've always been madly in love with this girl, but it seems she isn't much interested in me. I've also cried for her due to rejection and it turns out that I can never really be interested in other girls, I've tried being with other girls but its never worked me. Although there are a couple of boys I'm in to which is what makes me sexually confused. In a while, we're both going to be going to separate universities and I'm probably never going to see this girl again. I just don't want to lose her.
    I was thinking if I told her I was gay and fancied boys (which isn't a lie) she might not be afraid to talk to me and she'd maybe hang out with me more often so I wouldn't completely lose her.
    But on the other hand, if I eventually told her I liked her, she would never date me because I'm obviously in to guys as well, so I don't have a clue.
    Should I just tell her? I've never told many people about my sexuality and just thought whether this would ruin everything or not!
    Help appreciated.
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