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    Sorry if this is too long and I may just go on forever.
    Well I'm a guy (18) and since a few years I've been madly in love with this girl. But it turns out that shes not really in to me as much and I have cried over her because of rejection. I've tried to move on and being with other girls hasn't really helped or felt anything, because I've deeply loved her and I don't know what to do.
    I also sometimes have gay tendencies and I think I might be in to men and I've also recently had my eye on this cute guy at my school, but I don't think it actually means much. So me and this girl are going to be going to different universities very soon and I was thinking if I told her I fancied a guy (which is not a complete lie) she might hang around and talk to me more often, she loves hanging out with gay men; but I haven't told this to many people before so its slightly scary and if I told her at least I wouldn't lose her as quickly.
    What are your opinions on this?

    If you're trying to get a girl to fancy you by hanging around with you more, telling her your gay is not going to work. It's pretty obvious, although she likes gay friends clearly she will not go out with one, or even think she will be able to go out with one because *gasp* you told her you like guys...
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    I feel the exact same thing, buddy ... It kills, doesn't it?

    Get into the "friend zone" with the guy then see how you feel about being gay. Who knows? Maybe you're just jealous of his looks?

    As for the girl, try the "I've never been with a woman before" ruse and see where that leads to.

    Hang on a minute, you completely confused me .. You say you may be into some cute guy at your school, yet you're trying to get your best "girl" friend to fancy you? What do u mean ?
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