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    Hiya

    Ive met a girl on a night out and we exchanged facebook's, we really got on well and I want to add her on facebook, is there anything that i can say on the personal message thing on facebook when i add her, so i dont seem like some randomer, something like

    "Hiya _______ This is ________ we met the other night, just wanted to say hi how are you? x"

    or something like that?
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    Add her, but bon't private message her straight away (I mean, you wan't to seem chilled right? Insta-messaging her after she accepts won't give that impression).

    You could also ask something slightly more open ended than "how are you?"

    GL!
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    dont put a message!!
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    (Original post by Helicopter)
    Add her, but bon't private message her straight away (I mean, you wan't to seem chilled right? Insta-messaging her after she accepts won't give that impression).

    You could also ask something slightly more open ended than "how are you?"

    GL!
    No I meant theres like a personal message that you can add to your friend request, put something there??
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    Hm. Maybe it's personal, but I always think 'how are you?' seems a little contrived. Maybe an alternative like 'hey, it's X, what's up?'. Dunno, still feels a little weird. I probably wouldn't write anything myself, but then I'm not much of a facebook-er.
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    I wouldn't write a little message might come across as too keen.
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    Just add her and then shoot her a smooth PM, something like "hey baby, how you doin'?"
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    i wouldn't write anything in that, i dont think many people even read that message, or actually write a message in that box, just add her and then once she has answered post something simple like "hey, how are you" if it was on a night out that you met her then ask her how the rest of her night was on her wall
    Hope that helps =]
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    Don't write a message with the add. If you already exchanged facebooks, then she knows who you are.
    I've never really met anyone who uses that message attached to add thing anyway.
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    People really over-think on Facebook. Message her to say hi.

    Then ask for dirty pictures. Girls love confidence.



    Mad props to whoever thought I was serious on that point. You're not just thinking outside the box, you're in a totally different building to the box. Keep on truckin'
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    just add her and wait ... Good luck
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    yh i didnt bother with the message i just added her, now gona wait for the add lol
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    Poke her, and then when she pokes back say '**** facebook lets poke for real'

    GL
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    No 'x', please god no 'x' at the end.
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    What you wrote right there seems perfectly acceptable to me. Why over-think these kinds of things? They don't really matter.
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    Just post on her wall something like "Hey, it was nice meeting you the other night. How are you?"
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    Add her then she don't accept add her again and put a message.
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    Add and then Facebook Chat is the way forward

    (Original post by Swarley Stinson)
    People really over-think on Facebook. Message her to say hi.

    Then ask for dirty pictures. Girls love confidence.



    Mad props to whoever thought I was serious on that point. You're not just thinking outside the box, you're in a totally different building to the box. Keep on truckin'
    + Rep for the edit :cool:
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    (Original post by ufo_01)
    Add her then she don't accept add her again and put a message.
    If she declines it, which I doubt she would by the sounds of it, then the worst idea is to re-add her.

    OP, just ask her how her night was etc, don't think too much into it
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    (Original post by Bektas)
    No 'x', please god no 'x' at the end.
    alright calm down love, why not?
 
 
 
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