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    Have most people had a relationship by the age of 20? Basically, you've guessed it, I haven't had a relationship, and I'm 20. I'm thinking that if I've been single for this long, I must have quite a few flaws. The main question is though, have most people had a relationship by this age?
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    I've never had a relationship before and I'm 21. I wouldn't worry about it. It will come in time.
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    Most people on Earth? I doubt it
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    Aye but I'd argue that it's not necessarily a marker for owt.. e.g. personal development, personality, sociability etc..

    I didn't have my first proper, relatively full on relationship till I was like 24! and I turned out ok.. (HAHAHA)

    If you've been trying real hard to make the most of every connection you make and been getting yourself out there since the age of like 16 and still had no luck then it's time to worry, otherwise, you should probably relax..

    ..this might be helpful, more for males than females but there may well be some crossover
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    i wouldn't know if 'most' people will have had at least one relationship by the age of 20.
    all i know and care about is that i had to wait until 23 before i did. ;D
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    I didn't have my first proper, relatively full on relationship till I was like 24! and I turned out ok.. (HAHAHA)
    What were the ones sort of like before if you don't mind me asking?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What were the ones sort of like before if you don't mind me asking?
    I didn't really think about girls too much up to 15/16. 15-19 I was either too douchey or too ill to hold down a relationship, I had a string of casual things in this time - 'casual' mainly because I didn't take them too seriously, poor things - upset a few people by allowing them to become close :rolleyes:

    20+ Similar story, commitment/health issues but more of a desire for a deeper, more lasting bond with someone special..
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    I'm 23, never had a relationship. I wouldn't worry about it.
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    You're not alone anon.
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    But answering the question, have most people had a relationship by this age?
    Is it abnormal if you haven't?
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    I haven't and I don't think its abnormal. Everyone I know has been in relationships but I just think that the reason I haven't is because I don't really go on nights out and things like that (which is where people make friends that grow into relationships etc)
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    I think a lot of people would have had some sort of a gf/bf by the time they reach 20 but certainly there are those out there who haven't. What I do think is rare if someone has involuntarily had no real experience with the opposite sex by that age i.e dates and kissing. For example I'm 22 and have never gone out with a girl or kissed one. Now that IS rare, I'm quite sure of it.
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    (Original post by SirenVoices)
    I've never had a relationship before and I'm 21. I wouldn't worry about it. It will come in time.
    Same and I'm 21 too.
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    I'm 18 in a couple of months and I haven't. :emo:

    http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VSrnkiWaqS...alone+face.png
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    I'm eighteen and I've never had anything that would be classed as a relationship.












    I feel depressed now.
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    A relationship?

    No, I'm far too fun loving to waste my time :awesome:

    19, and no interest in a proper relationship what-so-ever.
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    From what I've observed through my teenage years, there's definitely a lot of people getting into relationships before the age of 20. I'm not really sure if it's most people, but certainly an awful lot. Heck, even when I was only 15, I left so weird and left out as it seemed like everyone was at it! I have had one sort-of relationship when I was 16, but apart from that I haven't actually had anything serious, and I'm 20 in 6 months :eek:. It should not really be much of a big deal as long as your life overall is good :yep:
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    21 and still haven't! It doesn't really bother me although at times I'd like to be
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    I haven't either! I don't think it matters, if you want it, it will come in time, some people are just happy without one, don't spend all your time worrying over it
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    At a guess I'd say it was nearer 50% if that have had one, so I wouldn't worry mate
 
 
 
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