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I use a sex toy because I'm not getting any sex (male) watch

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    as i stated in my topic about never having had the opportunity for sex, i am a 20 year old male virgin.

    i use a sex toy because its the best way i can simulate sex. i first bought a fleshlight in summer last year. it started to break inside and lose its feel, so i bought a pussy/ass combo. i have been using this since december.

    you might wonder why i dont just use my hand. its because using my hand is boring - its not anything like what real sex should be like. with a sex toy, i can move as if i am having sex, go in different positions, pound it hard, while i have porn on in the background. i even like looking in the mirror while i go at it.

    i do this once every 3 or 4 days. if i dont do it often enough, i become grumpy and depressed so i need this. of course sex would be much better but this is the closest i have got.

    my question to girls is: do you think this is strange for a guy to do? can you see where i am coming from and why i do this:

    my question to guys is: have any of you got sex toys? would you think using one would be much better than your hand?
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    yes i have sex toys... but i generally use them during sex rather than instead of it.
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    I would think it was weird if he chose a sex toy instead of actual sex.
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    Mum walking in on son masturbating with hand: :eek:
    Mum walking in on son masturbating with pussy/ass combo :puke:
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    Fair enough... stop telling people though.
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    I remember once when I was 16 and I was just beginning to do a google search at my friends house using his computer, my search word began with 'f' and 'fleshlight' came up in my friends search history. I've never seen anybody explode so quickly into saying the sentence 'I WASN'T LOOKING FOR IT, IT WASN'T ME OK?!!' all while I rolled around laughing at his over reaction.:^_^:
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    Didn't know guys had sex toys :eyebrow: feels pretty weird thinking about it
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    (Original post by emeleh)
    I would think it was weird if he chose a sex toy instead of actual sex.
    oh of course. i would never swap it for real sex. i use it because i am not getting any sex.
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    Yes you are weird
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    http://images2.memegenerator.net/Ima...e=Very-Sad-Kid
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    How about every time you feel like shagging your sex toy, you go to a bar instead and try and find yourself a woman.
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    I don't think it's weird.
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    (Original post by Installation)
    Fair enough... stop telling people though.
    This
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    Get a girl, any girl - lower your standards if you are this desperate. You obviously don't care what you stick you penis in and it has to be healthier than using sex toys.
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    Well it's not like you're going to be getting any any time soon if you go around telling people you use a fleshlight..
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    It can't be considered ''strange'' I suppose, as that's what sex toys are made for....
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    Nyah, whatever works for you, dude.

    It's interesting that there is such a disparity in opinion on sex toys: it's cool for women to use them, but sad for men. Hopefully that'll change someday. Hell, the sex-doll business alone shows how popular they are.
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    (Original post by James4d)
    How about every time you feel like shagging your sex toy, you go to a bar instead and try and find yourself a woman.
    dont know what part of the country you live in but bars where i am are where people go with their friends to drink, chat and possibly play pool or go on the slot machines.
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    No I have a girlfriend.
















    And even if I didn't have a girlfriend, I think I would hate myself if I used one of those, it's just weird. Whatever floats your boat though, no hate on you OP.
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    (Original post by Dr Pressure)
    oh of course. i would never swap it for real sex. i use it because i am not getting any sex.
    Yeah but wouldn't the fact you know you have a toy at home which can please you stop you from trying to meet a girl?

    I dunno, I don't know your personal circumstances!
 
 
 
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