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Boy advice

The guy i like (my ex), likes me but doesn't want to commit because he just come out of a relationship (the story is so much longer, but i don't want to bore anyone!) Should I:

a. Tell him i'll move on and see his reaction
b. not really talk to him about liking him again, but keep in contact
c. Stop talking to him
d. Carry on the way i am... letting him know I'm interested.

I ended the relationship before coz I felt it wasn't going anywhere.

He's changed a lot recently, i.e. is more confident, i don't know any of his friends now as he moved out of his parent's house. I find that tough because I don't know where I stand in relation to all these people he knows.

Advice would be much appreciated!

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Reply 1
Let him know you arent going to wait forever, but do not try and force him into it.
Yup I'd go for the first one, you might scare him into submission hehe!
If not..it'd probably be best to move on...
i'm a boy -check- yup

right, men take breakups hard, what you have to do is be his friends and keep talking to him, eventualty he will get over his egf and think about you so i'll go for B. How long ago did get out of this relationship and for how long ? and do you really want to be the girl to make the other one jelous?
Reply 4
I really like him at the moment, just last time (2 years ago, finished 1 year ago) it was him coming onto me..and me not sure, now its changed round. Im thinking maybe I like him more coz it is a challenge? Anyone else ever felt like that? How should i let him know im not going to wait forever (tell him straight?) I'm just finding it hard, i wanna text him all the time, we've both been really busy so we haven't had time to see each other recently
you could telling it too him straight out and then if that still dosn't work you could have a cooling off period where you don't give off any signals andd then maybe try again later. good luck
Reply 6
thank ewwww!
Reply 7
poll?
Reply 8
Poll? Just after some advice :smile:
Reply 9
trixie
The guy i like (my ex), likes me but doesn't want to commit because he just come out of a relationship (the story is so much longer, but i don't want to bore anyone!) Should I:

a. Tell him i'll move on and see his reaction
b. not really talk to him about liking him again, but keep in contact
c. Stop talking to him
d. Carry on the way i am... letting him know I'm interested.

I ended the relationship before coz I felt it wasn't going anywhere.

He's changed a lot recently, i.e. is more confident, i don't know any of his friends now as he moved out of his parent's house. I find that tough because I don't know where I stand in relation to all these people he knows.

Advice would be much appreciated!

x


I reckon - d