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If your partner had a one night stand, would you dump them or forgive them? watch

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    Dump. Obv.
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    Dump or you will become a doormat with a loss of self worth
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    (Original post by Zander5)
    I have casual flings as opposed to being with one girl.
    Each to their own. It doesn't sound very... fulfilling though.
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    Dump.

    I wouldn't do anything like that thus I won't put up with such crap either. Simples.
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    Definitely dump, maybe, MAYBE I could handle a kiss depending on circumstance but there's so much thinking time before actually having sex with someone, if he couldn't think of me and decide against it then **** that :p:

    I'm not just one of those girls who says it on principle, being with him afterwards not being able to trust him would just ruin me, the pain of breaking up would almost certainly last less long than if we tried again!
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    She'd need to go through a sexual health clinic before I accept her back.

    She'll either go through the procedure and be self-conscious enough not to do it again

    Or, she refuses - you should break up.
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    (Original post by LornaSandison1)
    Each to their own. It doesn't sound very... fulfilling though.
    What can i say im a not an emotional person.
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    (Original post by freakingout!)
    LOL me and the lads have names for girlfirneds like you...

    you're called doormats

    Anyone that forgives their partner for cheating, deserves to be cheated on tbh.

    *awaits neg rep from girls with low self esteem and abusive partners*
    Lol what a stupid comment.

    Its not about being a doormat, its about being mature enough to accept that virtually every single human being will make a mistake like this and regret it deeply. For example, if someone has been married for ten years and their other half kisses someone else once, it would be really, really stupid to break up that home and go through that emotional trauma of divorce just because of one kiss.

    If you have already made up your mind that you would never, ever forgive your partner for screwing up, even just one time, then maybe you should think if you're ready for long-term relationships.
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    In love = forgiveness a possibility

    else if // EJECT! :eek:
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    i'd definitely have to have a break and reconsider my feelings. if i really cared about them and could forgive them then obviously, i would.
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    Dump.

    Once a slut, always a slut.
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    Anything more than a kiss, I'd dump. One of the nastiest things you can do to a person is cheat on them; and I think cheating crosses a moral line - and like all lines once crossed once it's easy to cross again, so I imagine they'd cheat again.
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    depends how big her tits are.
 
 
 
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