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Is it wrong to be with your friends ex? watch

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    Welll this is going to sound a bit strange,

    Is it wrong to be with your friends ex, even if you were with them before your friend was.

    I mean it's nothing definite more seeing what happens?

    But wanted someone elses opinions.

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    Well it might make it awkward for your friend depending on how serious their relationship was.
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    Very much an awekward turtle moment when the friend finds out.

    http://i42.photobucket.com/albums/e3...iketurtles.jpg
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    Why would it be 'wrong'? Unless.. Your ex is your dad or something.
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    Tell your friend before anything happens and see how they react. I wouldn't say that dating a friend's ex is necessarily wrong - in fact, sometimes it isn't wrong at all, but it does depend on the circumstances. Whatever the circumstances, hiding things from friends in this sort of situation probably won't turn out well.
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    Wow, you're a terrible friend.
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    Bros before hoes.
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    IMO, friends ex boyfriends are totally out of bounds. There are plent of other guys out there, why would I go for one that used to be with my friend? Awkward.
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    What I forgot to state is that we aren't the closest of friends, and if I didnt have a problem with her being with him, then why should it be vice versa?
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    Depends I guess... I'm talking to a girl one of my close friends went out with, but that was over a year ago and he spoke to me before anyone knew saying I don't mind about it etc. I'd just talk to whoever the ex is, and your friends to find out their opinions on it.
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    My best friend dated my ex, and there was a time where people were trying to get me to date her ex but tbh swapping boys with your best friend is going too far. Now neither of us are seeing him, and I have a different boyfriend and so does she, and we are still great friends, but I don't know that would be true with all of my friends.
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    It all depends on there relationship and your relationship with your friend. I've dated a friends ex and it was fine. Buuut, hypocritically, I couldn't deal with a mate dating my exs. Whatever happens just make sure you talk to your friend first
 
 
 
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