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    I'm sick and tired of this. I just look at people around me and I'm so...different. I have incredible self-esteem issues.
    I have such low self-confidence and insecurities I don't know why. I'm just not up to it to handle life. I have absolutely rubbish social skills and especially can't talk to girls. I don't think there's ever been a girl who has fancied me, and I see people around me getting laid and in such happy relationships and totally in love and then there's me.
    I look weird. I'm fat, have no motivation at all to lose weight. Have lost my ability to study and can't seem to concentrate on anything. I have practically one or two friends and am a loser who hangs out with his cousins quite often. I have lost all my friends, am terrible at keeping in touch. If I have a party, there is no one to call while everyone else seems to have millions of people to call.
    I have weird interests like listening to national anthems of different countries and learning about the current political situation in South Africa post-apartheid.
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    Are you Indian ? Kala ghoda= black horse, brah?

    Always seems to be the Indians who are like this, and this is coming from an Indian...

    Lolsux2bindian.
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    (Original post by rhinger)
    Are you Indian ? Kala ghoda= black horse, brah?

    Always seems to be the Indians who are like this, and this is coming from an Indian...

    Lolsux2bindian.
    More like dark horse... ...hoping to surprise the world..you know..when they use the term dark horse in sporting events..
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    (Original post by kalaghoda)
    More like dark horse... ...hoping to surprise the world..you know..when they use the term dark horse in sporting events..
    Well be the dark horse then brah. Losing weight would be a start.

    I lost tons of weight during the summer after Year 10 and, while I'll admit I was still confident before Year 10, I felt even better afterwards. When you're done slimming, just start working out to get a buff body, and honestly it works wonders for confidence.

    Not that weird to be reading up on South Africa, either... People have their own interests.

    /bromance
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    (Original post by kalaghoda)
    I'm sick and tired of this. I just look at people around me and I'm so...different. I have incredible self-esteem issues.
    I have such low self-confidence and insecurities I don't know why. I'm just not up to it to handle life. I have absolutely rubbish social skills and especially can't talk to girls. I don't think there's ever been a girl who has fancied me, and I see people around me getting laid and in such happy relationships and totally in love and then there's me.
    I look weird. I'm fat, have no motivation at all to lose weight. Have lost my ability to study and can't seem to concentrate on anything. I have practically one or two friends and am a loser who hangs out with his cousins quite often. I have lost all my friends, am terrible at keeping in touch. If I have a party, there is no one to call while everyone else seems to have millions of people to call.
    I have weird interests like listening to national anthems of different countries and learning about the current political situation in South Africa post-apartheid.
    It's still up to you man, we can't do anything from here.
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    (Original post by kalaghoda)
    I'm sick and tired of this. I just look at people around me and I'm so...different. I have incredible self-esteem issues.
    I have such low self-confidence and insecurities I don't know why. I'm just not up to it to handle life. I have absolutely rubbish social skills and especially can't talk to girls. I don't think there's ever been a girl who has fancied me, and I see people around me getting laid and in such happy relationships and totally in love and then there's me.
    I look weird. I'm fat, have no motivation at all to lose weight. Have lost my ability to study and can't seem to concentrate on anything. I have practically one or two friends and am a loser who hangs out with his cousins quite often. I have lost all my friends, am terrible at keeping in touch. If I have a party, there is no one to call while everyone else seems to have millions of people to call.
    I have weird interests like listening to national anthems of different countries and learning about the current political situation in South Africa post-apartheid.
    Is this a release of steam, or are you asking for advice?

    If the latter, answer this; What do you really expect us to say that will help you?
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    (Original post by kalaghoda)

    I have weird interests like listening to national anthems of different countries and learning about the current political situation in South Africa post-apartheid.
    Lol, I use to listen to national anthems aswell when I was a kid. Some shoddy piece of software on Windows 98 (or another older windows OS). I could swear the same song came up for most of the obscure countries. Twas lolworthy.
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    I'm pretty much the same I have chronic low self-esteem, I'm chronically ill, socially awkward, constantly anxious, I never smile because I think that people are judging how I smile (lol) and have no motivation whatsoever because I think I'm going to be crap at anything I do anyway, but on the bright side, I'm beginning to realise that there's only two ways I can go from here - I can either sit and moan (not out loud because I rarely talk) or I can do something about it. I have tried to tell my doctor, but whenever I go, because of my issues I don't have the confidence to explain clearly and end up talking complete crap basically and then when I leave my first thought is "****!... I never actually told him/her anything that I wanted to say". So it's up to me

    You're not the only one mate.
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    man you sound like my guy best friend, ahah he is fat curley haired and into the most geekyest things, ahah if you want my opinion the only thing stopping you from changing is you?, if you wana loose weight do it? and try and if you dont then doint do it and dont moan about it xD, as for your interest mate ive seen people be into a lot more wierd things, just roll with it we all have wierd interests it doesnt have to be the be all and end all just get oout there join new clubs and as for girls you will find one, trust me if you saw my bf ha you'd realise it is possible :P ahah
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    To be fair, it doesn't sound like you've tried at all. Not about the being 'normal' bit (I hate this expression - what the hell is normal and why is everyone so afraid of being a bit different?), but about the losing weight, the working, the socialising.

    You've picked these things out as the things that are making you feel unhappy. So do something about them, it's not even about being normal, it's about feeling comfortable with yourself, which given your self-esteem issues, you clearly aren't. Normal doesn't exist, but happy does. Aim for that.
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    (Original post by Sweat.it.out)
    To be fair, it doesn't sound like you've tried at all. Not about the being 'normal' bit (I hate this expression - what the hell is normal and why is everyone so afraid of being a bit different?), but about the losing weight, the working, the socialising.

    You've picked these things out as the things that are making you feel unhappy. So do something about them, it's not even about being normal, it's about feeling comfortable with yourself, which given your self-esteem issues, you clearly aren't. Normal doesn't exist, but happy does. Aim for that.
    I've just lost all will to socialize..I get so depressed in social situations that I've started shying away from them.
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    (Original post by kalaghoda)
    I have weird interests like anthems of different learning about the current political situation in South Africa post-apartheid.
    So do I lol thats because south africa is interesting, in a chaotic kind of way
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    (Original post by Hardballer)
    So do I lol thats because south africa is interesting, in a chaotic kind of way
    Yeah right..the whole black-white equation.. are you a Rendier fan too?
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    Make a new diet plan and stick to it. Join a gym. This may be hard but if you ever hope to find a girlfriend then you're going to have to. Maybe read magazines like GQ, NME...whatever, I dunno, but just to keep 'in touch' with what ''normal'' people talk about.
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    (Original post by kalaghoda)
    I'm sick and tired of this. I just look at people around me and I'm so...different. I have incredible self-esteem issues.
    I have such low self-confidence and insecurities I don't know why. I'm just not up to it to handle life. I have absolutely rubbish social skills and especially can't talk to girls. I don't think there's ever been a girl who has fancied me, and I see people around me getting laid and in such happy relationships and totally in love and then there's me.
    I look weird. I'm fat, have no motivation at all to lose weight. Have lost my ability to study and can't seem to concentrate on anything. I have practically one or two friends and am a loser who hangs out with his cousins quite often. I have lost all my friends, am terrible at keeping in touch. If I have a party, there is no one to call while everyone else seems to have millions of people to call.
    I have weird interests like listening to national anthems of different countries and learning about the current political situation in South Africa post-apartheid.
    Join or gym or something to get some regular exercise. A health body is a healthy mind...
    South Africa is an amazing place! Carrying on reading and visit the place!
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    that's how i look..i'm the guy in the middle..
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    (Original post by kalaghoda)
    Yeah right..the whole black-white equation.. are you a Rendier fan too?
    yes I subscribed to his channel
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    Yes, another generalising person... What you must understand is that everyone else does not have brilliant social skills, loads of friends, perfect bodies and interests that fit in with the majority. You tend to find that those people who want to fit in give off the impression of having all these things, just to fit in, but theyre living a lie.

    EVERYONE is a massive and unique combination of different interests, ways of interacting, etc. It's good that youre being true to yourself and not changing yourself to be like others, there will be other people with at least one interest similar to yours, who will accept you so long as you can accept them - you just have to go and find them
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    (Original post by Hardballer)
    yes I subscribed to his channel
    he is awesome
 
 
 
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