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Boys do you treat pretty girls better in everyday life?

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Women treat good looking guys better too, if a good looking guy looks at a woman his flirting, an ugly guy looks at a woman his a creep/perv.

Everyones behaviour improves when something appeals to their eye
I'm a girl and what i've noticed is that the boys treat you better is they respect you and can get along with you. The guys i know will be perfectly respectful (well ok, that may be a tiny lie, but they know how far they can go before they need to stop) but if they don't respect you they will treat you pretty badly.

For example, one of my guy friends was hooking up with this girl (a **** buddy sort of thing) and he was horrible to her. Literally horrible, it made me feel sick. But towards me (we've been good friends for about 8+ years) he is one of the nicest guys i know, and he sticks up for me and always has. Yet towards her he was an absolute prick. So i asked him about it one day, and he said how i can respect her if she can't even respect her own self.
Original post by sassy123
I have noticed around college boys tend to treat pretty girls a lot better than average ones.E.g holding the door,Letting girls infront of them and moving out of their way E.C.T.

So boys Why do you do this ?dont you think you should treat all girls with the same no matter what they look like?

Thoughts...


You are right, but I think the opposite is true too - girls tend to treat good-looking boys better.
Original post by sassy123
I have noticed around college boys tend to treat pretty girls a lot better than average ones.E.g holding the door,Letting girls infront of them and moving out of their way E.C.T.

So boys Why do you do this ?dont you think you should treat all girls with the same no matter what they look like?

Thoughts...


Of course men do.

A pretty girl with a lovely rack will walk through the doors like she's walking on imported air as it is held open for her.

On the other hand, a fat ugly ginger minger will get a face full of door, as the door rebounds and smacks her in the face.
Girls who aren't pretty are just a waste of space in my eyes. I usually just blank them and pretend they don't exist.
Original post by Advanced Subsidiary
But white girls don't like Oriental guys. :sad:


I know :cry2:.
Original post by Mr Smurf
I know :cry2:.


It's cause your too feminine looking 'in general'
Reply 107
Original post by sassy123
I have noticed around college boys tend to treat pretty girls a lot better than average ones.E.g holding the door,Letting girls infront of them and moving out of their way E.C.T.

So boys Why do you do this ?dont you think you should treat all girls with the same no matter what they look like?

Thoughts...


Well, I think this tends to depend on the person. For instance I will hold the door for anyone at uni, work, or out shopping because it is good manners to do that, rather than let the door slam in their face. I also would move out of the way for anyone if I was blocking their way in a shop or at work or in a corridor at uni, because like holding the door, it is good manners to do so, rather than being ignorant. So in these type of circumstances I treat everyone equal, and to be honest, I think a lot of people would treat everyone equal. Sure some people never hold the door, or move out of your way, but they are simply ignorant people.

However, I can see your point that people tend to treat pretty people better than ugly people. The reason for this is though is rather obvious, think about it for a second; if you're a guy, you aren't going to approach a girl you do not fancy, and you probably aren't going to go out of your way to help a girl you do not fancy or like either. So it is obvious why guys and girls treat "pretty" people better than "ugly" people - they are interested in them, whether it be for sex, dating, or friendship, people always treat those they are interested in better than those they are not. It just happens to be that people seemingly treat pretty people better than ugly people. I don't think they are being mean or promoting inequality, it is simply how we are as human beings.
BETA males do
i treat all the girls the same really but it really does depend on my mood, i think i used to treat pretty girls better when i was young but my view has changed:biggrin:

in my sixth form, the guys always rush to open doors for the "hot" female teachers only.
Original post by RedCasino

I treat the ones wearing fewer make-up and more natural look with a smile, whereas those with lots of make-up I give a puzzling look.


I do this too! There was a girl sat opposite me on the bus today who overdid the eye shadow and I just couldn't figure out why anyone would enjoy that image. Looking like you've just gone 10 rounds with Mike Tyson whilst wearing an armoured burka isn't exactly an attractive appearance.

Natural beauty is great :biggrin:
Reply 111
Original post by sassy123
I have noticed around college boys tend to treat pretty girls a lot better than average ones.E.g holding the door,Letting girls infront of them and moving out of their way E.C.T.

So boys Why do you do this ?dont you think you should treat all girls with the same no matter what they look like?

Thoughts...


I think all women should be treated well no matter what they look like as they are still human. Besides, do you not think women treat more handsome men better and pay more attention to them.........you're full of ****, oh the hypocrisy
Reply 112
I treat girls that aren't rude/chavvy better in everyday situations.
I don't base my kindness/politeness on their looks though.
Absolutely never! Fit girls get treated like a princess all day, I'm a total ass, I borderline abuse them, and guess what? It works. They're not used to it most of the time and find it appealing. :wink:
Reply 114
I don't consciously treat anyone differently, but if a girl is stunningly good-looking, I am suddenly filled with an urge to go the extra mile for her - give her things, pick up her half of the bill if we've gone for coffee etc. It's actually quite awkward, because it happens even if I have no intention of getting with her :tongue:
Original post by Anonymous

Original post by Anonymous
I do this too! There was a girl sat opposite me on the bus today who overdid the eye shadow and I just couldn't figure out why anyone would enjoy that image. Looking like you've just gone 10 rounds with Mike Tyson whilst wearing an armoured burka isn't exactly an attractive appearance.

Natural beauty is great :biggrin:


Diary of a badman :facepalm:
Reply 116
No, because I'm not some beta phaggot who lets his behaviour be altered by physical attraction, if anything I'm more likely to be a bit spiky towards her to get under her skin and make sure that she is thinking about me rather than fawning over her like every other guy
Original post by im so academic
Oh please, you really think men treat all women the same?

It's ****ing obvious they treat the more pretty ones better.


You have so much keyboard rage lately, I thought you were supposed to be nice.
Original post by blueray
Diary of a badman :facepalm:


What? :s-smilie:
Original post by sassy123
I have noticed around college boys tend to treat pretty girls a lot better than average ones.E.g holding the door,Letting girls infront of them and moving out of their way E.C.T.

So boys Why do you do this ?dont you think you should treat all girls with the same no matter what they look like?

Thoughts...


That's just basic manners tbh.

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