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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok, maybe I have just become a total cynic since my ex split with me after our crappy 2year fail of a relationship based mainly on sex...
    Maybe it's because I felt I got exactly the same feeling as that "relationship" with a one night stand without the guy making me feel like crap...
    Maybe I am missing something, but what is the point of relationships?
    The point?

    Sex

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    sounds cheesy but a best friend, someone who will be there to talk and be there physically. to share an inside joke with. to laugh with :P
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    I was in a 3 year relationship which basically was pointless; we had sex when he wanted it, I was madly in love with him and he was the most unemotional ******* the world has ever spawned, he never did anything for me, I'd work so hard to make me happy and he'd just shrug it off, he never appreciated anything... he'd say horrible things to me, he didn't really support me but all along it turned out he did love me and he just took it for granted. We broke up when I finally grew some balls and I'd met a guy who was nicer to me than my own boyfriend. So that was like my wake up call.
    I don't know if that relationship could be called a relationship simply because all it was was intense first-love on my part and more apathetic love on his; I'd do all, he'd do nothing. We were just "together", not really working but together all the same.
    Now I'm with someone else who has shown me a completely different way of being in a relationship. So don't stress it, let your bad day pass and have a vent. And think you might have learnt something from these negative experiences cos at least now you know what you don't want.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I mean I can see the point if your older and are going to raise kids blahblah but when your at college/uni?? People just get hurt..
    Ah but getting hurt is all part of learning and prepares you for the real thing. If I had never been hurt, I'd still be chasing jerks around like a hopeless fool, and I'd really rather not...
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    (Original post by a_t)
    I was talking about mental age :h:
    Ok, I agree with you. :h:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok, maybe I have just become a total cynic since my ex split with me after our crappy 2year fail of a relationship based mainly on sex...
    Maybe it's because I felt I got exactly the same feeling as that "relationship" with a one night stand without the guy making me feel like crap...
    Maybe I am missing something, but what is the point of relationships?
    Babies. Boobies. Boners.

    (But not babies+boners together that's not legal)
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    (Original post by Peachykeen09)
    i am ahmayreecan
    Cool. How are thing on the other site of the Atlantic.
    Ps continuing with the nosy theme, what brings you onto TSR.
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    (Original post by a_t)
    And you learn so much from them, I've been really hurt from my past relationships but I wouldn't swap my experiences for everything because those memories are sweet, they're the best, they're the ones I'll hold on to until the day I die, they've shaped me a lot as a person and really helped me grow and mature and I hope for the day when I find someone special again
    Amen.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yes I know this... im not completely stupid im just angry and upset and thinking what the hell am i doing with myself and trying to justify the fact i slept with a friend after my ex sent me texts because I was so upset and then trying to tell myself i have no feelings for said friend as it was just meaningless sex but he was all we should see each other again but as they have just gotten into a relationship thats a no and they arn't really talking to me anymore because of this.
    And telling myself I havn't become a slut i am just hurt but since I have done this and made out with people I shouldn't chances of me getting into a relationship is about zilch and the only guys im interested in are players and completely self centred not people who are actully decent personality wise and which just makes me feel stupid and shallow and i think maybe i only see relationships now as sex but not being called a slut.
    So.... I come on here and start a thread... probably not the best way to vent but I am just so arghgH and had someone with sever depression asking me out earlier and I was trying to say no in the nicest way so i dont tip them over the edge or something... just a really bad day:mad:

    No one needed this rant... sorry if you are reading this. I just need to get it out of my system somehow... Thread is completely pointless along with this post.
    Sorry.
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    Dont worry about it...it's quite stupid that your said friend's not talking to you.

    Not every guy is like that...you'll meet someone better. You dont have to always be in a relationship either..just wait until you meet some you like a lot
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    (Original post by 419)
    Cool. How are thing on the other site of the Atlantic.
    Ps continuing with the nosy theme, what brings you onto TSR.
    pretty good if i do say so myself
    you brits are cool :cool:
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    There isn't really - women becomes attatched to the man, man likes regular sex. voila, a relationship is born!
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    Why didn't this person pick someone who she actually liked on a personality level rather than just a physical.
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    (Original post by Fight-or-Flight)
    ahh right
    Thank you and you sound like a nice person
    :shakehand:
    :awesome:
 
 
 
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