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    (Original post by QwentyJ)
    Dude, you really are. You worrying about it means you're losing the battle anyway! Be more Charlie Sheen - winning.

    We've all been there - all the negative thoughts just reduce you to a shell. Millions of the people in the world are worse of than you.

    How old are you, where do you come from, what do you do? I'm assuming you're young - so go out an try things. Don't become an hxx - the thing that won't get you anywhere with a women is having a bad attitude.

    That's not really pure evidence just because someone agrees with you. Let's have a look at Ann Summers range. Their biggest rabbit is the 'Big O' - supposedly because it's big.



    So really, their biggest is actually 6 inches. I used Ann Summers because their RR range is the most popular in the country.

    It really wouldn't be in their interests to make dildos ginormous. Economically redundant.
    they definately do sell over 6'', some are actually casts of porn stars penises ie 8" and even bigger
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    (Original post by TickTockBoom)
    Ok fair enough, but how big is "not be as big as they expect a lot of women would prefer them to be". Has a woman ever insulted the size of your penis or is it all in your head? I don't understand why you would obsess over this issue, especially if you are normalish sized.
    No i was referring to them, not myself. They might think women in general would prefer 7-8 inches and the penis to be really thick. I doubt a virgin has been insulted about the size of his penis by a girl. So they would rather avoid the trouble of rushing into sex with a girl and being bothered about how well they performed. No guy really needs to worry about that. Also, they might prefer to wait for a girl who truly loves them. This can build into a serious strong relationship where how great the sex is, is not the biggest issue. Does that make sense? I'm sure they might reply to you and tell you how they feel about it.
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    they definately do sell over 6'', some are actually casts of porn stars penises ie 8" and even bigger
    Where?

    Sure, they might sell them - doesn't mean they're popular though!
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    (Original post by QwentyJ)
    Where?

    Sure, they might sell them - doesn't mean they're popular though!
    most of the toys ive seen have been closer to 8'' than 6'', its hard to find 6'' ones if you were to look on websites
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    Very happy thanks :sexface:
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    (Original post by Ventura7)
    Just to see the ratio of people happy/ unhappy with theirs or their boyfriends penis size

    Will be interesting to see the different/ similar answers posted by men and women

    And please don't start bringing up size doesn't matter, just answer the question honestly.
    get a life and stop seeking womens approval you loser!!
    Ask the question if men are happy with the size of womens vagina
    Lot of old slappers around with baggy and disabled ones who can never ***:ahee::ahee::ahee::ahee::ahee::ahee::ahee::ahee::ahee::ahee::ahee:
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    Pity partyyyyyyy
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    (Original post by Cable)
    No i was referring to them, not myself. They might think women in general would prefer 7-8 inches and the penis to be really thick. I doubt a virgin has been insulted about the size of his penis by a girl. So they would rather avoid the trouble of rushing into sex with a girl and being bothered about how well they performed. No guy really needs to worry about that. Also, they might prefer to wait for a girl who truly loves them. This can build into a serious strong relationship where how great the sex is, is not the biggest issue. Does that make sense? I'm sure they might reply to you and tell you how they feel about it.
    But what about you? You seem pretty hung up on the issue.
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    most of the toys ive seen have been closer to 8'' than 6'', its hard to find 6'' ones if you were to look on websites
    Just look at the Ann Summers range - most of them have an insertable range so it might not be all it's cracked up to be.

    Again, they might state a certain size, but that might not be how much it actually is to insert. I'm no expert, for sure, but the price and extent of advertisement would lead me to think that they don't sell all that much.

    FML - reduced to to talking about Dildo sizes at quarter past 12! :doh:
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    (Original post by TickTockBoom)
    But what about you? You seem pretty hung up on the issue.
    I'm cool about the issue. It's just that the issue was brought up and I considered it from different perspectives. Where have I demonstrated being "hung up on the issue"?
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    (Original post by Smophy)
    Trust me women do think these things. We are just as concious about our bodies and our parts as your are about your wee willy winkies.
    ok yh but at the end of the day you know when we've had an orgasm (you can either check yourself or the condom) and 99% of the time men do have an orgasm, and lets be honest a vagina, is at the end of the day, a vagina, yes some might be "tighter" than others but its not really noticable, i mean a mother of 4 can still hold a tampon in just like a virgin can...
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    (Original post by Cabled)
    So true.
    Women masturbate with dildos/vibrators that are bigger than most guys out there and yet they still have the nerve to complain about their boyfriend watching porn, because it makes them (women) feel insecure. Talk about being insensitive, unsympathetic and hypocritical :rolleyes:
    I've had that before... i was just like wtf! at least im not sticking my **** in them like you basically are (but the other way around of course).
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    (Original post by QwentyJ)
    Just look at the Ann Summers range - most of them have an insertable range so it might not be all it's cracked up to be.

    Again, they might state a certain size, but that might not be how much it actually is to insert. I'm no expert, for sure, but the price and extent of advertisement would lead me to think that they don't sell all that much.

    FML - reduced to to talking about Dildo sizes at quarter past 12! :doh:
    Are you joking? From my experience around 70%+ of women use them.
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    (Original post by philbphil)
    ok yh but at the end of the day you know when we've had an orgasm (you can either check yourself or the condom) and 99% of the time men do have an orgasm, and lets be honest a vagina, is at the end of the day, a vagina, yes some might be "tighter" than others but its not really noticable, i mean a mother of 4 can still hold a tampon in just like a virgin can...
    Well for most women (i think) it isn't the destination, so to say, that matters but the journey. So yes it is more obvious when a lad has an orgasm but you shouldn't worry if the lass has, just as long as they had a good ride lol. Tbh penis size is pretty relative in the sense that you don't notice if it is small or big unless you have something to directly compare it to. That is unless it is extremely small or large. And I know it does just seem as just something people say but it is how you use it that counts.
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    (Original post by Smophy)
    Well for most women (i think) it isn't the destination, so to say, that matters but the journey. So yes it is more obvious when a lad has an orgasm but you shouldn't worry if the lass has, just as long as they had a good ride lol. Tbh penis size is pretty relative in the sense that you don't notice if it is small or big unless you have something to directly compare it to. That is unless it is extremely small or large. And I know it does just seem as just something people say but it is how you use it that counts.
    yes but how do we know if you had a good journey or not unless you orgasm? very few girls will just say "That was crap."

    when you say you dont notice if its big or small unless you have something to compare it to, do you mean like a dildo/vibrator because over half of women use one so thats over half of women that have something to compare regularly, and then out of those that dont im guessing a fair few have had a large penis at some point in their lifes.
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    (Original post by philbphil)
    yes but how do we know if you had a good journey or not unless you orgasm? very few girls will just say "That was crap."

    when you say you dont notice if its big or small unless you have something to compare it to, do you mean like a dildo/vibrator because over half of women use one so thats over half of women that have something to compare regularly, and then out of those that dont im guessing a fair few have had a large penis at some point in their lifes.
    I mean directly compare it too. So unless your stood naked next to another man or stood holding a dildo most girls aren't going to know how big you actually are and unless you are extremely small or extremely large it is unlikely they are going to know how big you are by the feel.

    Unless the lass looks disappointed your going to have to go with the assumption that they enjoyed it. Tbh though your not guaranteed to know if the girl has had an orgasm even if she did so its a rubbish way of measuring pleasure unless you ask after which I don't advise unless you want to be lied to (unless in a good, open relationship).

    At the end of the day though if your in a committed long term relationship then sexual performance or penis size really isn't a huge deal as over time things get better as you can both be open with each other about what is good and what isn't. If it is just a case of one night stands then why worry?! Just have a good time.

    I really think you are worrying about this too much. I think most young lads and virgins do. But I have to point out that women are the same. "Omg will he think I'm fat" "should I moan, will I sound weird" "what if he thinks I'm too hairy down there" "Will he think my boobs are small/saggy etc" "will he think I have an ugly vagina" "I don't have the confidence to go on top but will he think I'm rubbish in bed if I don't". And it doesn't matter on age or how many people you have slept with, the first time you sleep with that person you both will be thinking some of these silly worries unless you are all ready close.

    Just remember that when you sleep with someone for the first time you are both in the same boat so just go for it and hope for the best
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    (Original post by Smophy)
    I mean directly compare it too. So unless your stood naked next to another man or stood holding a dildo most girls aren't going to know how big you actually are and unless you are extremely small or extremely large it is unlikely they are going to know how big you are by the feel.

    Unless the lass looks disappointed your going to have to go with the assumption that they enjoyed it. Tbh though your not guaranteed to know if the girl has had an orgasm even if she did so its a rubbish way of measuring pleasure unless you ask after which I don't advise unless you want to be lied to (unless in a good, open relationship).

    At the end of the day though if your in a committed long term relationship then sexual performance or penis size really isn't a huge deal as over time things get better as you can both be open with each other about what is good and what isn't. If it is just a case of one night stands then why worry?! Just have a good time.

    I really think you are worrying about this too much. I think most young lads and virgins do. But I have to point out that women are the same. "Omg will he think I'm fat" "should I moan, will I sound weird" "what if he thinks I'm too hairy down there" "Will he think my boobs are small/saggy etc" "will he think I have an ugly vagina" "I don't have the confidence to go on top but will he think I'm rubbish in bed if I don't". And it doesn't matter on age or how many people you have slept with, the first time you sleep with that person you both will be thinking some of these silly worries unless you are all ready close.

    Just remember that when you sleep with someone for the first time you are both in the same boat so just go for it and hope for the best
    if you cant tell the difference then how come most dildos are above average size? and they might not be able to guess how big you are from the feel but im guessing you can tell the difference between different sized penis'?

    ok im not particuarly worried myself, im in a long term relationship and im quite happy with myself and my own performances, im talking about the male population on the whole.

    ok lets go through these:
    "will he think im fat" majority of men are more obese than women and we'd rather you have some fat as it shows you're not unhealthily skinny.
    "should i moan, will i sound wierd" all sounds made in the bedroom are sexy unless its shouting rape.
    "am i too hairy" if you are you can always shave/wax/trim.
    "are my boobs too small/saggy" so long as you have boobs most of us will be happy.
    "is my vagina ugly" i've yet to see a vagina that wasn't attractive to me in real life, google blue waffle then tell me yours is unattractive.
    "will he think im bad in bed if i dont go ontop" for guys position really doesnt make that much difference to how good a girl is in bed.

    however i know a guy who has been asked if he was in yet, and another who has been dumped because he wasn't good enough in the bedroom, very few guys will dump a girl because her boobs are too small.

    im not saying girls dont worry at all, but most of your worrying is silly but as in those two instances above and the fact that guys are more comparable guys have more to worry about in the bedroom.
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    (Original post by philbphil)
    if you cant tell the difference then how come most dildos are above average size? and they might not be able to guess how big you are from the feel but im guessing you can tell the difference between different sized penis'?

    ok im not particuarly worried myself, im in a long term relationship and im quite happy with myself and my own performances, im talking about the male population on the whole.

    ok lets go through these:
    "will he think im fat" majority of men are more obese than women and we'd rather you have some fat as it shows you're not unhealthily skinny.
    "should i moan, will i sound wierd" all sounds made in the bedroom are sexy unless its shouting rape.
    "am i too hairy" if you are you can always shave/wax/trim.
    "are my boobs too small/saggy" so long as you have boobs most of us will be happy.
    "is my vagina ugly" i've yet to see a vagina that wasn't attractive to me in real life, google blue waffle then tell me yours is unattractive.
    "will he think im bad in bed if i dont go ontop" for guys position really doesnt make that much difference to how good a girl is in bed.

    however i know a guy who has been asked if he was in yet, and another who has been dumped because he wasn't good enough in the bedroom, very few guys will dump a girl because her boobs are too small.

    im not saying girls dont worry at all, but most of your worrying is silly but as in those two instances above and the fact that guys are more comparable guys have more to worry about in the bedroom.
    stories like what you just told are quite common ie guys being told theyre too small etc and asked 'is it in yet'

    stories like that are more reasons im glad im a virgin and would be scared to try sex if I ever got the chance
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    stories like what you just told are quite common ie guys being told theyre too small etc and asked 'is it in yet'

    stories like that are more reasons im glad im a virgin and would be scared to try sex if I ever got the chance
    yh i know, and i haven't even started on premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction yet...
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    (Original post by philbphil)
    yh i know, and i haven't even started on premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction yet...
    i stand by my original point, women have it easy, its hard being a man.
 
 
 
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