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    OP I guarantee she thinks you're gay...

    Or that never happened and you're a sad troll.
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    (Original post by .Scout.)
    She thinks you're gay. If that was her making a move then woah...
    i think this should be the norm for all women hitting on guys.
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    I think she's just open about nudity and sees it as no big deal.
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    slight update:
    I just spoke to her on msn and brought it up to which she replied "Meh, you don't mind do you?" O.o if anything I think im more confused now


    (Original post by 0906079)
    OP I guarantee she thinks you're gay... Or that never happened and you're a sad troll.
    pretty sure she knows I'm not, she's met a couple of my exes..
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    She thinks you're gay OR she also knows you love it in the Friend Zone, so shes screwing with your mind. If she knew you'd be all over her like a streamroller at the drop of a hat, she'd never do that.

    Shes an attention whore. I say enjoy it amigo. I also say get naked yourself in front of her one day. See what she does. Maybe she'll finally let you ruin her. Good luck :groovy:
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    (Original post by Dude Where's My Username)
    She thinks you're gay OR she also knows you love it in the Friend Zone, so shes screwing with your mind. If she knew you'd be all over her like a streamroller at the drop of a hat, she'd never do that.

    Shes an attention whore. I say enjoy it amigo. I also say get naked yourself in front of her one day. See what she does. Maybe she'll finally let you ruin her. Good luck :groovy:
    she has actually seen me naked, but that was more of a walking in on me in the shower incident
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    Pics or it didn't happen
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    You're so in there dude :sexface:
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    Yeah I don't know about that one! No matter how comfortable with or how long I knew a guy I certainly would never strip off naked and stay like that for hours with them! Not even if it was a gay friend either!

    She could either just be really comfortable with you (god knows what goes through people's minds when they do stuff like this!) or it could be that she's really into you and that was her pathetic attempt in flirting with you. But again, I still don't know why she didn't go any further. I mean, she went as far to being naked in front of you, but then not to do anything else?! You'd think she would have taken it further wouldn't you!

    Seriously, I really don't have a proper answer. Maybe she is just comfortable with you. Maybe she thinks you're gay and so won't care :0!
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    (Original post by onetwothree)



    next thing i know she stands up, drops her towel and stands there starkers for a few moments still chatting to me. I've seen her boobs before but never the whole hog, wasn't sure where to look or what. anyway she hung the towel up, jumped on the bed next to me grabbed the tv remote and carried on as if nothing was amiss.

    She remained totally naked for about an hour before putting some knickers on, but stayed topless for most of the day. Not once did she reference the fact she was naked or act in any way out of the norm.
    Key questions are, how hot was it in the room? Was it so hot at this time of the year that she didn't need to wear anything at all?
    Why did she put the knickers on if she was totally comfortable naked?
    She did act out of the norm. You said she'd never taken all her clothes off like that with you before.
    Does she have a bf - could be she's giving you a subtle hint that she'd like a bit more than just friendship.
    Next time if she does it again, take all your clothes off too and see what happens.
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    (Original post by Charlottelisabeth)
    Yeah I don't know about that one! No matter how comfortable with or how long I knew a guy I certainly would never strip off naked and stay like that for hours with them! Not even if it was a gay friend either!

    She could either just be really comfortable with you (god knows what goes through people's minds when they do stuff like this!) or it could be that she's really into you and that was her pathetic attempt in flirting with you. But again, I still don't know why she didn't go any further. I mean, she went as far to being naked in front of you, but then not to do anything else?! You'd think she would have taken it further wouldn't you!

    Seriously, I really don't have a proper answer. Maybe she is just comfortable with you. Maybe she thinks you're gay and so won't care :0!
    I have since brought it up with her but her reply was less than useful "Meh, you dont mind do you?"




    (Original post by Doubledog)
    Key questions are, how hot was it in the room? Was it so hot at this time of the year that she didn't need to wear anything at all?
    Why did she put the knickers on if she was totally comfortable naked?
    She did act out of the norm. You said she'd never taken all her clothes off like that with you before.
    Does she have a bf - could be she's giving you a subtle hint that she'd like a bit more than just friendship.
    Next time if she does it again, take all your clothes off too and see what happens.

    my heating was on, it certainly wouldn't be chilly to be naked

    dunno - maybe after an hour or so she gets the idea I'm not going to make a move? (not that I really think she wanted me to, see below *)

    to be fair she hangs around in her undies quite a bit and i've seen her topless before under different circumstances (drunk) but this was out of the norm I'd say. however while naked she acted totally normal. She's quite a touchy feely person, always grabbing your hands to explain something or touching your face. this was kept up throughout.

    *No she doesn't have a bf, she doesn't like relationships. In the nicest way possible she's rather promiscuous - more of a one night stand kinda girl. She opens up to me quite a bit, tells me things I think she certainly wouldn't tell me if she saw me in that light. Also in all seriousness about the gay thing she knows im not, she's met a couple of exes, she's even seen my porn folder -.-" but thats a whole nother story...

    Not sure how comfortable I'd be doing that :P for starters I don't want anything more with her. However she is very attractive, its hard enough to hide the inevitable force of nature as is!
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    [QUOTE=onetwothree;30599297]I have since brought it up with her but her reply was less than useful "Meh, you dont mind do you?"

    Maybe that's just it then. Maybe she does only see you as a friend and just thought you wouldn't mind seeing as you've never 'put the moves' on her and you've already seen her in her undies and topless before. Maybe to her because at the time you never said or did anything then she thought that it was ok and that you didn't care.
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    [QUOTE=Charlottelisabeth;30601775]
    (Original post by onetwothree)
    I have since brought it up with her but her reply was less than useful "Meh, you dont mind do you?"

    Maybe that's just it then. Maybe she does only see you as a friend and just thought you wouldn't mind seeing as you've never 'put the moves' on her and you've already seen her in her undies and topless before. Maybe to her because at the time you never said or did anything then she thought that it was ok and that you didn't care.
    I hope so, I really hope I'm reading too much into it. I really don't want to become more than friends, things are great as they are, uncomplicated and great fun. I don't want that to change. That said, if this is the case then I'm certainly not complaining, I'm not gonna lie she's blooming attractive :P
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    Why cant this happen to me!
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    assuming she's not lying about her feelings I think I have peace of mind
    she came round last night and we had a bit of a chat, she sais she wasn't sure what came over her but it was the most liberating thing she ever did.
    I told her she can indulge herself at my 'expense' any time she likes :P but, alas, she didn't go for a repeat performance last night. She stayed over tho, but is still sleeping so maybe! :P but cheers for the advice, I'm glad I brought it up with her as I really wasn't sure what to think about the whole thing.
 
 
 
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