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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Anon or delete please

    Hey, This isn't going to be about whether size matters because I know it has been done to death on here:

    Right, I'm bang on average (statistically speaking at just over 6inches), and I don't have problems with sex, but:

    I look at myself in the mirror and my **** just looks small and pathetic! I know I'm standard size but it doesn't stop me feeling slightly depressed that I don't look very impressive at all, esp after watching massive pornstars in action.


    So, do any other guys here think that their erection looks pathetic (especially if like me you are quite a tall guy)? I know there's not much can be done about it but am interested to here people's thoughts.

    It affects my self confidence because the penis is known as your 'manhood' after all.
    Lol kid you shouldn't worry about this. In all honesty, if you look the right way - all penises are pathetic in size compared to the rest of your body.

    I mean it's hardly gonna match up (or indeed even remotely) to the size of your torso or limbs - nor would any girl who values the integrity of her pelvic floor want it to!

    Just chill out.

    TBPH - I regard my boyfriend's penis sometimes as cute (I know I know, the ultimate shame for him - hence why anon :p: ) cause really it's just this kinda bizarre looking little dangly between his legs (let's be honest here they all are, genitalia is weird, vaginas no better).
    But it doesn't mean him (and it included when erect) aren't very sexy and a big turn on and that's the honest truth of it. Who cares about size, it's a man and he wants to come inside me! To me that's hot, porn isn't gonna brainwash me otherwise.

    So yes, possibly tmi from me there, but don't worry yourself so much and just enjoy sex when it comes your way.
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    You cannot say 'it doesnt say much' it is from an expert lol..

    Seriously, trying to ignore expert facts, it's really depressing, i feel sorry for you, i really do.

    Girls may prefer big ones.
    Oh and btw, that is a complete generalisation and does no way reflect a large proportion of women, if you actually got laid and talked to girls you'd know that

    but like it says, the size is mostly the appearance and 'wow' factor.

    Have a read, it may help, instead of ignoring facts presented to you
    I would say that the link posted is quite meaningless- expert after expert says size doesn't matter etc etc , yet the vast majority of women say it does. I realised this years ago.

    If your trying to date women/have sex, are you going to beleive some 'expert' or believe the word from the mouths of women? its womens opinion that matters as its women we're trying to chase after/impress/date etc not some guy in a white lab coat who wrote that article
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol kid you shouldn't worry about this. In all honesty, if you look the right way - all penises are pathetic in size compared to the rest of your body.

    I mean it's hardly gonna match up (or indeed even remotely) to the size of your torso or limbs - nor would any girl who values the integrity of her pelvic floor want it to!

    Just chill out.

    TBPH - I regard my boyfriend's penis sometimes as cute (I know I know, the ultimate shame for him - hence why anon :p: ) cause really it's just this kinda bizarre looking little dangly between his legs (let's be honest here they all are, genitalia is weird, vaginas no better).
    But it doesn't mean him (and it included when erect) aren't very sexy and a big turn on and that's the honest truth of it. Who cares about size, it's a man and he wants to come inside me! To me that's hot, porn isn't gonna brainwash me otherwise.

    So yes, possibly tmi from me there, but don't worry yourself so much and just enjoy sex when it comes your way.
    thats very nice of you to think like that, you sound like a very lovely, thoughtful girl with a nice perspective on sex
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    I would say that the link posted is quite meaningless- expert after expert says size doesn't matter etc etc , yet the vast majority of women say it does. I realised this years ago.

    If your trying to date women/have sex, are you going to beleive some 'expert' or believe the word from the mouths of women? its womens opinion that matters as its women we're trying to chase after/impress/date etc not some guy in a white lab coat who wrote that article
    I would believe the expert, who knows scientific facts to do with the anatomy of a woman , who is also part of a large newspaper and has spoken to many, many women on the case.

    Talk to any genuine girl and they will tell you that within reason, obviously like less than 3 inches maybe put a girl off, they don't care what penis size a guy is.

    Scientifically a 10 inch penis is simply no better than a 5 inch.
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    I would believe the expert, who knows scientific facts to do with the anatomy of a woman , who is also part of a large newspaper and has spoken to many, many women on the case.

    Talk to any genuine girl and they will tell you that within reason, obviously like less than 3 inches maybe put a girl off, they don't care what penis size a guy is.

    Scientifically a 10 inch penis is simply no better than a 5 inch.
    I would believe women. If women say they prefer bigger and size matters, who are scientists to say otherwise?? Even if scientists say it doesn't matter, women say bigger looks better and feels better in sex. (ive read countless articles by 'experts' saying size doesnt matter and read/heard women saying otherwise for years and years...)


    You and I have experienced different realities, most girls ive read/heard say it matters and bigger is better.
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    thats very nice of you to think like that, you sound like a very lovely, thoughtful girl with a nice perspective on sex
    Aaw, thankyou!

    I hope you don't worry too much about girls judging for penis size - I would say the majority really aren't that shallow.
    A lot talk like they are but they don't mean it. And then a lot really don't talk like they have a preference - but they don't get heard because they aren't talking about penis size at all! Would that make sense?

    I was just reading the thread and it made me sad how many guys are really like really worried about this issue
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    I would believe women. If women say they prefer bigger and size matters, who are scientists to say otherwise?? Even if scientists say it doesn't matter, women say bigger looks better and feels better in sex. (ive read countless articles by 'experts' saying size doesnt matter and read/heard women saying otherwise for years and years...)


    You and I have experienced different realities, most girls ive read/heard say it matters and bigger is better.
    Don't understand how can ignore the anatomy. It is simple facts.
    Women may say they prefer big ones, simply because of the 'wow' factor associated, and probably ( i obviously wouldnt know) a larger one is simply more of a turn on. But the simple fact is a big penis cannot do anything an average one cannot.
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    Don't understand how can ignore the anatomy. It is simple facts.
    Women may say they prefer big ones, simply because of the 'wow' factor associated, and probably ( i obviously wouldnt know) a larger one is simply more of a turn on. But the simple fact is a big penis cannot do anything an average one cannot.
    with the statement in bold I see where your coming from (excuse the pun) but ive heard so many women say otherwise- are you going to argue with women re what feels better if you dont have a vagina???...
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    with the statement in bold I see where your coming from (excuse the pun) but ive heard so many women say otherwise- are you going to argue with women re what feels better if you dont have a vagina???...
    With the basis of scientific evidence, and equally as women agreeing with me asa you, yes i am.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Aaw, thankyou!

    I hope you don't worry too much about girls judging for penis size - I would say the majority really aren't that shallow.
    A lot talk like they are but they don't mean it. And then a lot really don't talk like they have a preference - but they don't get heard because they aren't talking about penis size at all! Would that make sense?

    I was just reading the thread and it made me sad how many guys are really like really worried about this issue
    the majority of girls seem to want big(ish) ones in my experience
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    I would say that the link posted is quite meaningless- expert after expert says size doesn't matter etc etc , yet the vast majority of women say it does. I realised this years ago.

    If your trying to date women/have sex, are you going to beleive some 'expert' or believe the word from the mouths of women? its womens opinion that matters as its women we're trying to chase after/impress/date etc not some guy in a white lab coat who wrote that article
    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    Iwould believe women. If women say they prefer bigger and size matters, who are scientists to say otherwise?? Even if scientists say it doesn't matter, women say bigger looks better and feels better in sex. (ive read countless articles by 'experts' saying size doesnt matter and read/heard women saying otherwise for years and years...)


    You and I have experienced different realities, most girls ive read/heard say it matters and bigger is better.
    Don't even bother. He's a stubborn fool (major understatement btw). He can keep on chasing old men in white lab coats if he wants for all I care.
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    With the basis of scientific evidence, and equally as women agreeing with me asa you, yes i am.
    so if a girl says something feels better, youd argue with her 'no it doesnt feel better because so and so says so'..... :facepalm:
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    so if a girl says something feels better, youd argue with her 'no it doesnt feel better because so and so says so'..... :facepalm:
    An equal amount of women say it doesnt feel any better and doesnt matter, than say it does.


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    Don't even bother. He's a stubborn fool (major understatement btw). He can keep on chasing old men in white lab coats if he wants for all I care.
    Silly little unintelligent troll.
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    Silly little unintelligent troll.
    That description fits you better than me. Funny that you think that you're more intelligent than I am
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    (Original post by Cabled)
    That description fits you better than me. Funny that you think that you're more intelligent than I am
    Given you make up sources and ignore other people's, yes
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    Given you make up sources and ignore other people's, yes
    Except for the fact that I DON'T make up sources and ignore other people's. But keep on lying if you want
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    Ehh. I'm pretty insecure about my **** to be perfectly honest. I'm still a virgin and it's one of the main things holding me back I think

    But ehh, my girlfriend seems to be relativley impressed by my finger skills, despite me having no experience in that area. So you mever know, things might not go so badly...

    You kbnow what doesn't help though? being sli8ghtly mbelow average when everyone is saying avwerage is fine fml
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Aaw, thankyou!

    I hope you don't worry too much about girls judging for penis size - I would say the majority really aren't that shallow.
    A lot talk like they are but they don't mean it. And then a lot really don't talk like they have a preference - but they don't get heard because they aren't talking about penis size at all! Would that make sense?

    I was just reading the thread and it made me sad how many guys are really like really worried about this issue
    In my experience, most women care A LOT about penis size. A shame that most women don't share your views on sex and penises.
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    (Original post by Cabled)
    Except for the fact that I DON'T make up sources and ignore other people's. But keep on lying if you want
    Well after several requests you still havent managed to post these so called 'real' sources you found.
    And yes you ignored mine about the doctor.

    So, try again?
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    (Original post by Steevee)
    Ehh. I'm pretty insecure about my **** to be perfectly honest. I'm still a virgin and it's one of the main things holding me back I think

    But ehh, my girlfriend seems to be relativley impressed by my finger skills, despite me having no experience in that area. So you mever know, things might not go so badly...

    You kbnow what doesn't help though? being sli8ghtly mbelow average when everyone is saying avwerage is fine fml
    if i may ask, what does your gf says about your size? and size insecurity? (have you told her you are insecure about it?)
 
 
 
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