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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    Well after several requests you still havent managed to post these so called 'real' sources you found.
    And yes you ignored mine about the doctor.

    So, try again?
    I gave you the names of the websites and date as well. It's not my fault that you can't find them.
    And no I didn't ignore anything, so try harder next time.
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    (Original post by Cabled)
    I gave you the names of the websites and date as well. It's not my fault that you can't find them.
    And no I didn't ignore anything, so try harder next time.
    Bless, it's like i'm talking to a child. :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    if i may ask, what does your gf says about your size? and size insecurity? (have you told her you are insecure about it?)
    Well, she hasn't said anything really. we're taking it slow, and she doesn't know about my insecurity. To be honest, my main focus is making a pleasurable experience for her. I mean, to be frank, I['m a guy, so I get off easy enough. I try to focus on making her feel special. She hasn't said anything about my size, though she certainley knows my dimensions by now I think But uhh, we're both each others firsts, so I don't really know what to think. I'm glad she's not been with an yone else, as I fear I wouldn't compare favourabley
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    (Original post by Steevee)
    Well, she hasn't said anything really. we're taking it slow, and she doesn't know about my insecurity. To be honest, my main focus is making a pleasurable experience for her. I mean, to be frank, I['m a guy, so I get off easy enough. I try to focus on making her feel special. She hasn't said anything about my size, though she certainley knows my dimensions by now I think But uhh, we're both each others firsts, so I don't really know what to think. I'm glad she's not been with an yone else, as I fear I wouldn't compare favourabley
    i know where your coming from (no pun intended) if i was in a relationship, id have the same insecurities, only far worse

    its a shame that girls have it easy, i mean when did anyone ever hear of a girl wondering if she would be 'good enough' in bed for a guy???
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    Bless, it's like i'm talking to a child. :rolleyes:
    Rich to hear that coming from you :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Cabled)
    Rich to hear that coming from you :rolleyes:
    Keep trolling bro.
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    i know where your coming from (no pun intended) if i was in a relationship, id have the same insecurities, only far worse

    its a shame that girls have it easy, i mean when did anyone ever hear of a girl wondering if she would be 'good enough' in bed for a guy???
    Having talked to some,. they do. But to be honest, most guys...well to us sex is sex. Not to degrade our whole gender, but it doesn't take too much for guys.

    I guess, well I'll see how it goes. And hope I live up to expectations. I just hope that even if I don't live up to certainexpectations, my giving attitude towards other things ehkps out.

    Also, I really shouldn't come on TSR after a drink or two :P
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    Keep trolling bro.
    Likewise, loser.
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    (Original post by floralia)
    Ok so I know we're far away from the original post now, but what the **** does 'anon or delete' actually mean?! I just don't get it...would someone care to explain?!
    I think they think the Mods decide whether to keep your OP anon or not? I really don;t know,. I mean, seeing most of the H & R anon posts it's clear the mods don;t really care if you Anon.
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    (Original post by Steevee)
    Having talked to some,. they do. But to be honest, most guys...well to us sex is sex. Not to degrade our whole gender, but it doesn't take too much for guys.

    I guess, well I'll see how it goes. And hope I live up to expectations. I just hope that even if I don't live up to certainexpectations, my giving attitude towards other things ehkps out.

    Also, I really shouldn't come on TSR after a drink or two :P
    i hope all goes well for you, i also hope she cares about and thinks as much of you as you do of her
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    I think you've been looking at too much porn man.Average is just over 5 inchs and most women don't care how endowed a guy is as long they can use it.Infact most women are not size queens at all and don't like very well endowed guys.Because they hurt them.
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    (Original post by Gilly Roach)
    most women don't care how endowed a guy is as long they can use it
    how do you know that its 'most' women that think this?
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    i know where your coming from (no pun intended) if i was in a relationship, id have the same insecurities, only far worse

    its a shame that girls have it easy, i mean when did anyone ever hear of a girl wondering if she would be 'good enough' in bed for a guy???
    You would be really surprised (I'm back!)

    Girls worry about a lot of things when it comes to this (and I'm not trying to blame guys for this btw), like: Is my hair down their right? Are my flaps down there right? Will I smell okay? Will I taste okay? Will I be good enough?

    As much as I do still :heart: you from saying I seemed really nice (!) definitely a lot (most I would say) of girls worry about being good enough in bed. No wonder you seem intimidated, if you think all women are super confident and super critical in the bedroom!

    I mean, girls probably don't have anything to worry about. But neither do guys Honestly I wish I could comfort you more, I'll just talk from anecdote here - but my girlfriends don't even talk about penis size. They don't care!

    So many girls are romantics y'know all they want is for you to tell them they're pretty, be kind and sweet, funny (often) and if they think you're attractive then you're in - sure they want to be pleased in bed, but almost any sized penis would do for that (scientifically, we know that's the case).

    So please don't worry so much! A girl who cares overtly about your size isn't worth your attention. She needs to grow up I think.
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    (Original post by bloomblaze)
    how do you know that its 'most' women that think this?
    It's a well known fact.There's loads of info about it on the net.
    I've never met a size queen and none of my mates have either.
    Porn is just very misleading
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    (Original post by Cabled)
    rrrg i like getting people angry and/or i have incredibly low self esteem and hate on women to make up for it
    You are a naughty troll.
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    (Original post by Steevee)
    Having talked to some,. they do. But to be honest, most guys...well to us sex is sex. Not to degrade our whole gender, but it doesn't take too much for guys.

    I guess, well I'll see how it goes. And hope I live up to expectations. I just hope that even if I don't live up to certainexpectations, my giving attitude towards other things ehkps out.

    Also, I really shouldn't come on TSR after a drink or two :P
    I guess that's true to some extent, hence why women really should't worry about their performance in bed. It's almost impossible for a woman to be bad in bed, whereas it's very easy for a guy to fail.

    I hope that your girlfriend doesn't turn out to be a size-queen, and hopefully it goes well. Good luck
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You would be really surprised (I'm back!)

    Girls worry about a lot of things when it comes to this (and I'm not trying to blame guys for this btw), like: Is my hair down their right? Are my flaps down there right? Will I smell okay? Will I taste okay? Will I be good enough?

    As much as I do still :heart: you from saying I seemed really nice (!) definitely a lot (most I would say) of girls worry about being good enough in bed. No wonder you seem intimidated, if you think all women are super confident and super critical in the bedroom!

    I mean, girls probably don't have anything to worry about. But neither do guys Honestly I wish I could comfort you more, I'll just talk from anecdote here - but my girlfriends don't even talk about penis size. They don't care!

    So many girls are romantics y'know all they want is for you to tell them they're pretty, be kind and sweet, funny (often) and if they think you're attractive then you're in - sure they want to be pleased in bed, but almost any sized penis would do for that (scientifically, we know that's the case).

    So please don't worry so much! A girl who cares overtly about your size isn't worth your attention. She needs to grow up I think.
    ive read plenty of posts here on tsr by girls saying bigger is better etc etc
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    (Original post by Steevee)
    Well, she hasn't said anything really. we're taking it slow, and she doesn't know about my insecurity. To be honest, my main focus is making a pleasurable experience for her. I mean, to be frank, I['m a guy, so I get off easy enough. I try to focus on making her feel special. She hasn't said anything about my size, though she certainley knows my dimensions by now I think But uhh, we're both each others firsts, so I don't really know what to think. I'm glad she's not been with an yone else, as I fear I wouldn't compare favourabley
    Have you ever called your girlfriend beautiful and meant it, and she said something like "nonono, i'm not!" or anything?
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    (Original post by catsss)
    Have you ever called your girlfriend beautiful and meant it, and she said something like "nonono, i'm not!" or anything?
    I have. And it's weird. And now I have to try not to sound like a ****. Hmm.

    When I'm not with her, I can evaluate emperically, and I know she's not really beautiful by high standards. She's no 'stunner'. But when I'm with her, she is beautiful. She's the most beautiful girl I know. And I've told her. And yes, I suppose she doesn't belive it sometimes. She says no, but I think she knows I mean it
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    (Original post by Steevee)
    I have. And it's weird. And now I have to try not to sound like a ****. Hmm.

    When I'm not with her, I can evaluate emperically, and I know she's not really beautiful by high standards. She's no 'stunner'. But when I'm with her, she is beautiful. She's the most beautiful girl I know. And I've told her. And yes, I suppose she doesn't belive it sometimes. She says no, but I think she knows I mean it
    Okay, this isn't an exact comparison, but honestly she probably feels the same way about you- she thinks you're absolutely wonderful the way you are, penis size and all. You have absolutely nothing to be insecure about, and please allow me to assure you that most women are not size queens. If you are exceedingly worried about not being able to give her enough pleasure, concentrate on foreplay and oral and stimulating her clit during penetration with your hands or CAT.

    Sorry if any of this has ever been covered, just saw that one post. ^^
 
 
 
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