what would you think?
I suppose I've always felt older than my age, and I don't really enjoy the student parties too much. I used to go when I first started, but the everybody gets soo drunk, they have these themes where people dress up like porn stars or S&M people and in general it is very childish. There was another girl at school I used to go out with, to other clubs in the area and stuff, but she has now graduated (started before me).
I have friend at school and I see some people outside of school also, but then mostly for lunch/hanging out. It's a bit difficult to bring them to the clubs I used to go to, firstly because the other girl who has graduated used to know the managers, and I could get in by myself but not with my other friends (they are quite selective there, I know it's unfair, but not my decision). I am almost 21 and when I was 17-18, I did go out and sometimes drank more than I could manage, but I feel those days are over. It's difficult to find someone who like to dress up a bit, go to other places, or to be honest, can afford it. Now a couple of my friends are nagging my to come to some student parties. I find a bit of a hassle. I'm a bit of a person who enjoys my own company and I don't want a packed schedule where I see people all the time. Do you consider people who don't come to student parties and stuff weird / out of the group? I think it's difficult to find like-minded people even though I am sweet, friendly and not an outsider in any way.
who are introverts?